I'M 20 AND I LOOK LIKE I AM 14.

post=115759
Ok. Then you only act really weird on this forum. Maybe in the real world you're a complete different person.

But, listing off your hobbies saying nothing about how you act. Again, it's like being cool is a math equation. It's not. A person can like X, Y and Z and dress like A and still not be cool or get girls, even if another person that likes X, Y and Z and dresses like A is cool and gets girls. You can only prove you're not weird by how you present yourself and act in situations. On this forum, you're not doing a very good job of proving it. Maybe you're different in the real world, but all I can judge is your many posts in this thread.

But one can only say the same thing so many times, so you know what my opinion is, do with it what you must. I wish you luck with growing up.

post=115816
You know, you can grow a beard and change what you wear, but that is not going to change anything, not with your attitude. You're blaming everything on outside looks, i don't know why, probably because that's an easier, less painful thing to deal with than your personality.

From what you've said, it sounds like you haven't yet found a girl you genuinely care for and respect, you're just lumping them all together. You seem to blindly ask out any girl to deal with your own insecurities(which by the way, probably comes across as really creepy). The normal thing would be to get to know someone as a friend first and take it from there. Your entire reasons for asking out girls just seems wierd to me.
Instead of completely disregarding the fact that your personality might be at fault, i suggest you think about it a lot more. Stop being so self-pitiful and defeatist, and it sounds corny but think about why you're even asking out these girls in the first place, do you actually want a girlfriend or do you just want to solve your own security issues?
Wait until you find someone you genuinely care about and then your attitude might change.

post=115832
if a girl says 'ugh you are too ugly to date' maybe you are better off without someone like that?

post=115835
From that post it seems like you do fit the role of the funny guy. The funny guy can make a great friend, but girls can find it squirmish to be with the funny guy. I had a similar problem in high school. I could listen and make everyone laugh, but I couldn't go beyond that, and so I came off strange or weird when I tried. Also, it sounds like you have little experience, so when you switch to "I want to be with you mode", everyone can smell your awkwardness and it comes off creepy. Again, I'm speaking from personal experience, and not looking down.

Also, if you're a funny guy, then maybe all these girls are just being lighthearted joking with you when they're calling you ugly? They feel comfortable talking to you and comfortable joking with you and no interest in being with you because you're "that guy" and so say "fuck no you're ugly man!"

Let's end with a quote from Blink 182: "It's so damn hard to keep playing the role of the fool week after week."

Insightful words boys.


HAVE YOU TRIED THIS:

Talking to a girl who has no connection to any of your circle of friends or people you know. She doesn't know you as the funny guy, or the inexperienced guy, or the desperate guy, but just another dude who seems kind of cool.

edit: I ask this because while my problem got a lot better in high school, it completely went away in university. Girls didn't have any preconceptions or treat me as a goofy funny person, and I had realized at that point that I'm reciprocating the role I had, and it wasn't really me. With girls at college, I could be me, and they found me attractive.