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post=122282
Hahaha that image is great but also:
I don't think pretty people are mean (in general), I just don't they think they are as interesting as regular looking people (in general). I do think that only the bottom of the barrel in terms of personalities are going to this site, though, which is what I was trying to say.
Good looking people are fine. I have good looking friends, I know lots of nice good looking people. What I am saying is that only the worst kind of good looking people (arrogant, shallow imbeciles) are going to both go to this site and also feel like it is their duty to keep anything a few pounds overweight from besmirching it.
p.s. I am captain sexy or anything but I don't think I am ugly enough to have troll rage or anything. You'll also notice that my comments were directed at the people who visit that site, not in general. While 1/5 good looking people might interesting, only maybe 1/3 normal looking people are interesting, so it's not that big a difference. I was only trying to make a point. GET OFF MY DICK MOG JESUS
Yeah I was mostly giving you a hard time, but I see what you mean. Also, originally I wanted to say 'WTF Kaempfer you're a pretty good looking lad yourself whatchu talkin' 'bout' but I didn't want to come off as...g...gay
There are people who are attracted to overweight people. We all are different. Our attraction towards others is made from our genetics and social world. No type of person should be banned from any dating site. Beauty is not the same for everyone.
I've tried online dating before. My picture average rating was about 1 or 2 out of 10. I soon got kicked off of the site.
I've tried online dating before. My picture average rating was about 1 or 2 out of 10. I soon got kicked off of the site.
I meant to say "I am not captain sexy" but it looks like like we all know how I truly feel...
MOG, maybe I should say... get on my... nevermind.
I think you guys are misinterpreting the word beauty to mean something unfathomable and incredulous that is an unattainable goal humanity has long lusted after. In reality, it's not nearly as subjective as you think. There are deviations galore, but there is pretty large overlap for most people in terms of other people they find attractive. Personally, I like tall, slender women with nice legs and a fine ol' bum, but there are loads of women who I find attractive for other reasons. This is the same for most people, in some way or another: There is an ideal, there is a "close to ideal", and there is "not my usual thing but still attractive".
Between the border of "good looking" and "weird looking" there is also a strange valley where some people are attractive and some people, with no discernible difference, are not. But mostly, people exist outside this realm.
What I am trying to say is this: When 7/10 people find a person attractive, that person is attractive. Sorry if you are the 1.5/10 who hates their guts because everyone else likes them and you think they're overrated or the 1.5/10 who has different tastes, but you'll just have to accept this. Of course it's in the eye of the beholder, but most people behold the same thing most of the time.
MOG, maybe I should say... get on my... nevermind.
I think you guys are misinterpreting the word beauty to mean something unfathomable and incredulous that is an unattainable goal humanity has long lusted after. In reality, it's not nearly as subjective as you think. There are deviations galore, but there is pretty large overlap for most people in terms of other people they find attractive. Personally, I like tall, slender women with nice legs and a fine ol' bum, but there are loads of women who I find attractive for other reasons. This is the same for most people, in some way or another: There is an ideal, there is a "close to ideal", and there is "not my usual thing but still attractive".
Between the border of "good looking" and "weird looking" there is also a strange valley where some people are attractive and some people, with no discernible difference, are not. But mostly, people exist outside this realm.
What I am trying to say is this: When 7/10 people find a person attractive, that person is attractive. Sorry if you are the 1.5/10 who hates their guts because everyone else likes them and you think they're overrated or the 1.5/10 who has different tastes, but you'll just have to accept this. Of course it's in the eye of the beholder, but most people behold the same thing most of the time.
Beauty is not completely in the eye of the beholder. Beauty is also partly in the eye of society. Beauty does not biologically exist. Beauty was created by Society to separate people by their physical looks. Thus society has made standards to what is attractive and what is unattractive.
Society has a standard yes, but you consciously choose to follow society's standards or not. You can follow society's standards or decide for yourself what you think is beautiful--either way, it is your eye that is choosing. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
post=122300
Society has a standard yes, but you consciously choose to follow society's standards or not. You can follow society's standards or decide for yourself what you think is beautiful--either way, it is your eye that is choosing. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
If you let society choose for you then it is not in the eye of the beholder.
post=122301post=122300If you let society choose for you then it is not in the eye of the beholder.
Society has a standard yes, but you consciously choose to follow society's standards or not. You can follow society's standards or decide for yourself what you think is beautiful--either way, it is your eye that is choosing. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Letting society choose for you means you CHOOSE to follow society, meaning it is your eye that chooses.
Actually, recalling an experiment, I disgree with myself. Beauty is partially in the eye of the beholder, but partially innate. There was this experiment where they took faces and showed them to newborn babies, and it was shown that the newborns preferred the faces that people had deemed to be "beautiful."
Basically sucks to be you if you're on the other end of that.
edit: article http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn6355
Obviously discriminatory, but lets have a look at the site's "terms of service".
IF there is some terms or some rules saying "NO FAT PEOPLE", i can't see a moral rupture, cause well rulz are rulz right?
But,, what if some very rich fat guy joins the so called ELITE CLUB, who would even care about his stomach?
I like fatty chicks^^ (no kidding, I DO!)
There she blows!
What happens if you don't choose society?
IF there is some terms or some rules saying "NO FAT PEOPLE", i can't see a moral rupture, cause well rulz are rulz right?
But,, what if some very rich fat guy joins the so called ELITE CLUB, who would even care about his stomach?
I like fatty chicks^^ (no kidding, I DO!)
There she blows!
post=122301
Letting society choose for you means you CHOOSE to follow society, meaning it is your eye that chooses.
What happens if you don't choose society?
post=122303post=122301Letting society choose for you means you CHOOSE to follow society, meaning it is your eye that chooses.post=122300If you let society choose for you then it is not in the eye of the beholder.
Society has a standard yes, but you consciously choose to follow society's standards or not. You can follow society's standards or decide for yourself what you think is beautiful--either way, it is your eye that is choosing. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Actually, recalling an experiment, I disgree with myself. Beauty is partially in the eye of the beholder, but partially innate. There was this experiment where they took faces and showed them to newborn babies, and it was shown that the newborns preferred the faces that people had deemed to be "beautiful."
Basically sucks to be you if you're on the other end of that.
edit: article http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn6355
That's cause babies are stupid. I think all women are beautiful...as long as they have a pulse.
And if I'm drunk enough, that ceases to be an issue. I love beer goggles.
post=122593post=122301What happens if you don't choose society?
Letting society choose for you means you CHOOSE to follow society, meaning it is your eye that chooses.
Uh. Then you don't choose society?
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post=122751post=122593Uh. Then you don't choose society?post=122301What happens if you don't choose society?
Letting society choose for you means you CHOOSE to follow society, meaning it is your eye that chooses.
???
Yep, but whats the answer society gives to people who do that?
Irrelevant to the point I was making. That's something that happens on a case-by-case basis, you cannot strictly generalize how society treats someone that chooses not to follow it.
post=122794post=122751Yep, but whats the answer society gives to people who do that?post=122593Uh. Then you don't choose society?post=122301What happens if you don't choose society?
Letting society choose for you means you CHOOSE to follow society, meaning it is your eye that chooses.
???
Those are usually what we call 'bums'.
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