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author=pianotm
This status alarms me to a significant degree, especially having been posted by someone I like and who's opinion I value. On this site, we tend to present ourselves as open-minded, making this appear to be a safe space, but that thread demonstrated otherwise. Max McGee's thread was one thing. His behavior was very bigoted and offensive, and our response while aggressive, was non-degrading, and barely addressed him, instead opting for a very healthy response. The thread in question here was a very different matter. The poster asked for an "H-game". S/he was delicate about how they asked, and thread quickly escalated into something that any newcomer to this site would have every valid reason to find very disturbing. The OP in that thread was not being a disgusting creeper. The respondents were being prying nosers. When it started, all we knew was that the op was looking for an H-game. By the time everyone had their say, we knew s/he was looking for a hentai game, "masturbated" to strange things, and was a "disgusting creeper" and this happened almost entirely through no fault of x/er own. Of course, s/he might have had the sense to shut up about slave porn, but when a conversation is heated, people tend to say things they shouldn't.