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Currently heartbroken and realized that I actually had fever and other symptoms after someone told me that she has someone else.
Vaccaria- 02/13/2016 02:06 AM
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If it makes you feel better, she might just be saying that because she doesn't like you
edit: just kidding, that was mean. That sucks asshole bud
edit: just kidding, that was mean. That sucks asshole bud
Dyhalto
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So what if she has someone else? What makes this other dude better than you? Timing? Circumstance? Love isn't something that should be decided with "He was there first", unless they're already married or some shit.
Go be passively cool around her. This other dude will probably foul it up anyway. We guys tend to do that lots. After he does, cast your Charm Person spell (but don't become the rebound guy).
Go be passively cool around her. This other dude will probably foul it up anyway. We guys tend to do that lots. After he does, cast your Charm Person spell (but don't become the rebound guy).
Please don't be a friend to a woman just for the sake of hoping to get into her panties one day. It's pathetic and leads to men being butt-hurt when she picks guys who are actually up-front about their intentions over the 'nice guy' (who then evolve into trilby terrorists - the annoying assholes who froth about the so-called 'friend zone' (key note - no such fucking thing*) and how girls always go after assholes).
*Seriously, someone who uses that term is basically outing themselves as assholes who would rather blame a woman over their own inability to actually treat women more than a possible future hook-up. They create this so-called 'zone' with the intention of not being a friend at all - they put themselves in the 'possible lover' role without her permission, then blame her when it never happens, getting angry when they're told 'I think of you as a friend' because OMG they actually told her straight out that they were her fucking friend. If someone is sending mixed signals it's the man in this equation, not the woman. Don't fucking befriend someone if you don't want to actually be their fucking friend!
*Seriously, someone who uses that term is basically outing themselves as assholes who would rather blame a woman over their own inability to actually treat women more than a possible future hook-up. They create this so-called 'zone' with the intention of not being a friend at all - they put themselves in the 'possible lover' role without her permission, then blame her when it never happens, getting angry when they're told 'I think of you as a friend' because OMG they actually told her straight out that they were her fucking friend. If someone is sending mixed signals it's the man in this equation, not the woman. Don't fucking befriend someone if you don't want to actually be their fucking friend!
author=pianotm
There are much worse things, my friend. Trust me. There is a better match for you out there.
You're right about that.
author=InfectionFiles
If it makes you feel better, she might just be saying that because she doesn't like you
edit: just kidding, that was mean. That sucks asshole bud
I'm still not sure about that. Still, made my day.
author=Dyhalto
So what if she has someone else? What makes this other dude better than you? Timing? Circumstance? Love isn't something that should be decided with "He was there first", unless they're already married or some shit.
Go be passively cool around her. This other dude will probably foul it up anyway. We guys tend to do that lots. After he does, cast your Charm Person spell (but don't become the rebound guy).
Well, he doesn't know how to speak English properly, is a Chinese guy, has a lot of grammatical errors and in fact, he's too shy to even do things on his own. I guess I'll to this one instead. He may have won the battle, but he has not won the war.
author=Liberty
Please don't be a friend to a woman just for the sake of hoping to get into her panties one day. It's pathetic and leads to men being butt-hurt when she picks guys who are actually up-front about their intentions over the 'nice guy' (who then evolve into trilby terrorists - the annoying assholes who froth about the so-called 'friend zone' (key note - no such fucking thing*) and how girls always go after assholes).
*Seriously, someone who uses that term is basically outing themselves as assholes who would rather blame a woman over their own inability to actually treat women more than a possible future hook-up. They create this so-called 'zone' with the intention of not being a friend at all - they put themselves in the 'possible lover' role without her permission, then blame her when it never happens, getting angry when they're told 'I think of you as a friend' because OMG they actually told her straight out that they were her fucking friend. If someone is sending mixed signals it's the man in this equation, not the woman. Don't fucking befriend someone if you don't want to actually be their fucking friend!
Wow. Okay. I'm not doing that for the sake of getting her panties. Why would I do that in such an age?
In other news, I have fever, an intense heartbeat rate and stuck in my bed.
Take that feeling and shove it into a game somehow. Vomit your hurt and emotion onto a blank canvas and then start wagging your finger around in it until it makes some kind of human sense.
Don't just lay down and die and focus on that shit, get up and do something, anything. It's in your head.
If you're studying psychology, remember this experience and learn from it so that you can overcome it and possibly help someone else with the same problem in the future.
Never let a woman do this to you, you're stronger than that.
And fuck that chinese prick, and speaking of prick he probably has an abnormally small penis, like a button peeking out of a fur coat. So, soon she will be greatly displeased and the language barrier will start to eat away at her and one day she will just be like "lol wtf i'm I doing with this loser"
Do not let this scar you. Don't let it sour your perception of her. Instead lie and wait like the sneaky little panther you are and play your little panther cards right and you can get her. If you truly want to be with her, or atleast experience a relationship with her, look at this like a challenge. Don't let your brain overwhelm your body.
Or, forget about her and move on.
You're too young to focus on one woman anyways, you crazy party panther.
Don't just lay down and die and focus on that shit, get up and do something, anything. It's in your head.
If you're studying psychology, remember this experience and learn from it so that you can overcome it and possibly help someone else with the same problem in the future.
Never let a woman do this to you, you're stronger than that.
And fuck that chinese prick, and speaking of prick he probably has an abnormally small penis, like a button peeking out of a fur coat. So, soon she will be greatly displeased and the language barrier will start to eat away at her and one day she will just be like "lol wtf i'm I doing with this loser"
Do not let this scar you. Don't let it sour your perception of her. Instead lie and wait like the sneaky little panther you are and play your little panther cards right and you can get her. If you truly want to be with her, or atleast experience a relationship with her, look at this like a challenge. Don't let your brain overwhelm your body.
Or, forget about her and move on.
You're too young to focus on one woman anyways, you crazy party panther.
author=InfectionFiles
Take that feeling and shove it into a game somehow. Vomit your hurt and emotion onto a blank canvas and then start wagging your finger around in it until it makes some kind of human sense.
Don't just lay down and die and focus on that shit, get up and do something, anything. It's in your head.
If you're studying psychology, remember this experience and learn from it so that you can overcome it and possibly help someone else with the same problem in the future.
Never let a woman do this to you, you're stronger than that.
And fuck that chinese prick, and speaking of prick he probably has an abnormally small penis, like a button peeking out of a fur coat. So, soon she will be greatly displeased and the language barrier will start to eat away at her and one day she will just be like "lol wtf i'm I doing with this loser"
Do not let this scar you. Don't let it sour your perception of her. Instead lie and wait like the sneaky little panther you are and play your little panther cards right and you can get her. If you truly want to be with her, or atleast experience a relationship with her, look at this like a challenge. Don't let your brain overwhelm your body.
Or, forget about her and move on.
You're too young to focus on one woman anyways, you crazy party panther.
Got it, boss! And oh man, I read your post with Shia LaBeouf's voice and made my day. I'll also keep that in mind, thanks man!
Shia Labeouf's voice, huh? Did not see that one coming but whatever works for you buddy!
Glad I could help, even if it made you crack a smile and forget about shit if only for a moment
Glad I could help, even if it made you crack a smile and forget about shit if only for a moment
I, uh, wasn't saying you were, but was more responding to Dyhalto's post and the whole inference that hanging around her will maybe make her like you sort of thing. Don't do that - don't hang around like a dog in heat who is just waiting for her boy to fuck up so you can 'swoop in and sweep her away'. That's basically the same as just being a friend for the sake of getting her to be yours, and besides, it might cause issues between she and her boyfriend, and end up making her resent you for doing so.
If you want to be her friend then let go of the feeling of 'maybe this will lead to more' because it's not a guarantee and it'll fuck things up more than it will help. If you're going to hang around her, make sure you're not doing the 'I'm just a friend' thing to her, is what I'm basically saying. Those horrible romance movies have it all wrong (and have taught a ton of people how not to get the girl).
Basically, if you want to be her friend, just be her friend, but if you want more, make sure that she knows you're not aiming to 'just be a friend' so that she can choose how she reacts to you in that respect. If she then chooses to maybe take up with you after she and her boy break up, she knows that option is there. If she thinks of you as just a friend you're only going to get treated as such and pushing to go beyond friendship will just mess up what you had as 'just friends'. (And make her not trust people - men in particular - as much. As a woman, you get to a point where you're just like "Great, sure, let's see what you want from me Mr 'Just wanna be friends'. Lemme guess. Sex. *tch* Figures." every time a male wants to 'be friends'. Which is what makes 'assholes' a breath of fresh air - they're not trying to be friends just to get in your pants... they just want the pants from the start.)
I should write a book about this bullshit.
If you want to be her friend then let go of the feeling of 'maybe this will lead to more' because it's not a guarantee and it'll fuck things up more than it will help. If you're going to hang around her, make sure you're not doing the 'I'm just a friend' thing to her, is what I'm basically saying. Those horrible romance movies have it all wrong (and have taught a ton of people how not to get the girl).
Basically, if you want to be her friend, just be her friend, but if you want more, make sure that she knows you're not aiming to 'just be a friend' so that she can choose how she reacts to you in that respect. If she then chooses to maybe take up with you after she and her boy break up, she knows that option is there. If she thinks of you as just a friend you're only going to get treated as such and pushing to go beyond friendship will just mess up what you had as 'just friends'. (And make her not trust people - men in particular - as much. As a woman, you get to a point where you're just like "Great, sure, let's see what you want from me Mr 'Just wanna be friends'. Lemme guess. Sex. *tch* Figures." every time a male wants to 'be friends'. Which is what makes 'assholes' a breath of fresh air - they're not trying to be friends just to get in your pants... they just want the pants from the start.)
I should write a book about this bullshit.
KatanaHiroshi
Got it, boss! And oh man, I read your post with Shia LaBeouf's voice and made my day. I'll also keep that in mind, thanks man!
Like, which era? Like, when he was still at that age where his voice still hadn't broken, back when he was doing things like Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind? Or when he was publicly making an idiot out of himself, like he did shortly after doing Transformers and Indiana Jones?
Dyhalto
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author=Liberty
I, uh, wasn't saying you were, but was more responding to Dyhalto's post and the whole inference that hanging around her will maybe make her like you sort of thing.
Well, I actually meant not to despair and drop off the face of the earth as far as she's concerned, since that's generally what a lot of shy guys end up doing.
I think you're worried about the puppy dog type love which, yeah, is all kinds of annoying. But I don't see how becoming a friend, then wanting to elevate it when the opportunity arises (she becomes single) is a bad thing. If something comes of it, yay. If nothing comes of it, you've still got a friend. I have several, dare I say it, friend-zone friends.
At the end of the day, any relationship only works if both parties are mature enough to make it so.
That's rough, dude. You'll find someone better!
Yeah, I think Dyhalto's advice is fine. Libby could be objecting since the friend zone is used to justify a lot of terrible behavior though. If the guy understands that the girl may not actually want to be in a relationship one day, then I don't see much harm.
That's assuming getting with the girl isn't the only reason you stick around. Otherwise, just hanging around doesn't seem intrinsically bad either if you're not pretending to be her friend.
Also super super important: If it's going to hurt you or her to stay around, then definitely do not!
Yeah, I think Dyhalto's advice is fine. Libby could be objecting since the friend zone is used to justify a lot of terrible behavior though. If the guy understands that the girl may not actually want to be in a relationship one day, then I don't see much harm.
That's assuming getting with the girl isn't the only reason you stick around. Otherwise, just hanging around doesn't seem intrinsically bad either if you're not pretending to be her friend.
Also super super important: If it's going to hurt you or her to stay around, then definitely do not!
author=Liberty
I, uh, wasn't saying you were, but was more responding to Dyhalto's post and the whole inference that hanging around her will maybe make her like you sort of thing. Don't do that - don't hang around like a dog in heat who is just waiting for her boy to fuck up so you can 'swoop in and sweep her away'. That's basically the same as just being a friend for the sake of getting her to be yours, and besides, it might cause issues between she and her boyfriend, and end up making her resent you for doing so.
If you want to be her friend then let go of the feeling of 'maybe this will lead to more' because it's not a guarantee and it'll fuck things up more than it will help. If you're going to hang around her, make sure you're not doing the 'I'm just a friend' thing to her, is what I'm basically saying. Those horrible romance movies have it all wrong (and have taught a ton of people how not to get the girl).
Basically, if you want to be her friend, just be her friend, but if you want more, make sure that she knows you're not aiming to 'just be a friend' so that she can choose how she reacts to you in that respect. If she then chooses to maybe take up with you after she and her boy break up, she knows that option is there. If she thinks of you as just a friend you're only going to get treated as such and pushing to go beyond friendship will just mess up what you had as 'just friends'. (And make her not trust people - men in particular - as much. As a woman, you get to a point where you're just like "Great, sure, let's see what you want from me Mr 'Just wanna be friends'. Lemme guess. Sex. *tch* Figures." every time a male wants to 'be friends'. Which is what makes 'assholes' a breath of fresh air - they're not trying to be friends just to get in your pants... they just want the pants from the start.)
I should write a book about this bullshit.
You should. I'll buy it if I have to.
And, I should really do something interesting rather than getting heartbroken all over again. After all, gam mak before getting into heinous relationships. I'm really happy that y'all are giving me advice to stop these cars crashing around my brain.
I'd suggest not sticking around her, if she has a boyfriend, even in a friend way. That might cause to much pain to you, and hurt the overall chances like Liberty said.
Like, you can always be her friend if that's something you think you can handle and desire. But distancing yourself from her is probably the better idea if she means a lot to you and you would like a romantic relationship at some point.
I'm not even sure how old you are, Katana.
A lot of this shit might not really matter if you're younger, because you have so much shit and pain and happiness and love to go through before you learn the best way, through experience.
Like, you can always be her friend if that's something you think you can handle and desire. But distancing yourself from her is probably the better idea if she means a lot to you and you would like a romantic relationship at some point.
I'm not even sure how old you are, Katana.
A lot of this shit might not really matter if you're younger, because you have so much shit and pain and happiness and love to go through before you learn the best way, through experience.
@Dyhalto - yeah, basically I was just putting off the idea of 'be friends now to scoop her up later' since it could have been read into your post and a lot of men (and women!) fall into that kind of thinking only to fuck things up completely for the other person and themselves. Better to just get rid of that idea (especially with how it turns into blaming the 'friend' at the end of it all, which is seriously toxic.)
LockeZ
I'd really like to get rid of LockeZ. His play style is way too unpredictable. He's always like this too. If he ran a country, he'd just kill and imprison people at random until crime stopped.
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author=pianotmYeah. Instead of just a fever, she could've given you herpes.
There are much worse things, my friend. Trust me.
I might sound insensitive, but you should seriously capitalize on this experience. These things rarely happen, you know. Write the whole thing down! How you feel, how you've reacted, everything! Trust me, it'll come in handy at some point. Especially when you're writing.
LockeZpianotmYeah. Instead of just a fever, she could've given you herpes.
There are much worse things, my friend. Trust me.
92 percent of the world population is infected with a herpes virus. Everyone on Earth is way past avoiding it. Ask your doctor.
Pyramid_Head
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If she's a friend, then at least stick around enough so that she knows you're there if she needs to talk to anyone, just be all up in her grills about it. I mean women like who women like... ain't no creature as simple as a man going to change their minds. A good skill to have would to be able to train yourself not to like the person in question. I managed to do that once, and it was tough. But it'll be better in the long run. I'm probably spouting bollocks that's already been said 100 times over.
Be a friend, but be a platonic friend. And if the new squeeze does cock things up monumentally, don't dive in there like a vulture.
That's my two pence anyways.
Be a friend, but be a platonic friend. And if the new squeeze does cock things up monumentally, don't dive in there like a vulture.
That's my two pence anyways.
