GENDER OPTIONS

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author=Liberty
I don't know that we have any trans- or other people currently on the site (or have in the past), it's not really something that gets brought up. I do know we've have and have had homosexual, asexual, bisexual (myself in this group) and other-sexual people who frequent the site and it's not an issue as we welcome anyone when it comes to creating, playing and discussing games.

We do! That's actually how the 'Welp' option came to be. Initially, there were only Male and Female for options. This was like 4 or 5 years ago, but I was contacted or it came up or somehow I learned of the lack of the Other option. That droplist is just a hardcoded list. I added 'Welp' as a lark one time while working on other bugfixes, and I had intended to come back and change it to 'Other' or somesuch, but that code was pushed to PROD before I got around to it, and the person that was looking for the change was like 'that's perfect!' so the term 'Welp' as an option stuck.

...and now you know the rest of the story.


Welp is a bit of an ongoing inside joke/slang word around here, and it's inclusion as a Gender option is meant to fill the 'Other' or 'Not Telling' or 'Fuck You, you don't need to know' options.

I'd rather not make it a free text field, but only because spambots will use it as yet another place to put links to malware sites or be another place to check for malicious cross-site scripting attacks. And that's just a hassle. But I would more than happy to add more options. Or even just remove it altogether.

I don't even know why we have it - we don't use it for anything. Probably just convention.

If you guys compiled a list of Genders I can add it in the next time I am in the code.
Roden
who could forget dear ratboy
3857
Yeah, probably best to just take it out entirely. We literally just had a discussion about how gender doesn't make a fucking difference in Gam Mak anyways, so it's obviously not a field of important information.
LockeZ
I'd really like to get rid of LockeZ. His play style is way too unpredictable. He's always like this too. If he ran a country, he'd just kill and imprison people at random until crime stopped.
5958
Replace it with a "number of penises" field that accepts numerical input

...I appreciate being able to click on someone's name to be able to check whether I should refer to that person as 'he' or 'she' in a thread
InfectionFiles
the world ends in whatever my makerscore currently is
4622
Having gender options adds too much work.
Time that could have been spent developing games or y'know thinking about developing games.
LockeZ
I'd really like to get rid of LockeZ. His play style is way too unpredictable. He's always like this too. If he ran a country, he'd just kill and imprison people at random until crime stopped.
5958
I guess the politically correct way to phrase it would be "preferred pronoun" instead of "gender"? There are still only two of those (for now), so "he"/"she"/"not specified" as options would cover all the bases and still serve the purpose that the original field served.
author=EdgeOfChaos
How about replace the Gender thing with a textbox instead of a dropdown box so you can enter whatever you want. It doesn't REALLY matter, so I can't see much harm.
That would just invite the ridicilousness that is stuff like "planetkin". I would rather remove anything that would force me to discover that someone on here is one of those.
InfectionFiles
the world ends in whatever my makerscore currently is
4622
The problem (lol?) with choosing what you want to specify yourself as is that you can be silly stuff dicksfornipples or catdog. We should all just refer to eachother as "it"
Makes it waaay easier
Roden
who could forget dear ratboy
3857
how dare you I am a catdog
InfectionFiles
the world ends in whatever my makerscore currently is
4622
See!? It's entirely too much work to think of all the things humans can be. I'll now refer to Pizza as "it"
Though in hushed whispers I'll say "catdog"
Corfaisus
"It's frustrating because - as much as Corf is otherwise an irredeemable person - his 2k/3 mapping is on point." ~ psy_wombats
7874
Yay! Now that it's a text-box, I can enter "empathetic" instead of having to fall into that whole "masculinity" thing (there's been plenty of things to taint that for me, with Gamergate being the most recent). I'd like to think I'm somewhere out there - that I don't fit some sort of binary - because I feel the most alive when I cast away these labels and embrace the person I want to be, but I've always been bound by tradition.
pianotm
The TM is for Totally Magical.
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author=SnowOwl
author=EdgeOfChaos
How about replace the Gender thing with a textbox instead of a dropdown box so you can enter whatever you want. It doesn't REALLY matter, so I can't see much harm.
That would just invite the ridicilousness that is stuff like "planetkin". I would rather remove anything that would force me to discover that someone on here is one of those.


And what's wrong with ridiculousness?
InfectionFiles
the world ends in whatever my makerscore currently is
4622
Oh, guys. We so won here today.

Remember this day...
author=pianotm
author=SnowOwl
author=EdgeOfChaos
How about replace the Gender thing with a textbox instead of a dropdown box so you can enter whatever you want. It doesn't REALLY matter, so I can't see much harm.
That would just invite the ridicilousness that is stuff like "planetkin". I would rather remove anything that would force me to discover that someone on here is one of those.
And what's wrong with ridiculousness?

There's nothing wrong with ridiciculousness. These people seriously believe that they are somehow identified as whatever fantasy they cook up, though. If someone does it as a joke, whatever. If someone seriously believes it, I can't help but think less of them. That's why I don't want to know, so I don't have to think less of them. Does that make sense?
LockeZ
I'd really like to get rid of LockeZ. His play style is way too unpredictable. He's always like this too. If he ran a country, he'd just kill and imprison people at random until crime stopped.
5958
While you're changing things in the account settings, under "Contact Information", can MSN be renamed to Skype? MSN hasn't existed for a while.
InfectionFiles
the world ends in whatever my makerscore currently is
4622
Skype would be more 2014
One problem though. I find that I have checked the gender field on occasion so that I don't make a mistake when talking about people in the he/she or him/her sense. If it were gone I think it'd be a little bit more likely that we stumble through gender pronouns awkwardly.

I think allowing it is still the best option, but maybe just point out that Welp is Other for those who wish to make that specification. Also, pointing out that there's no forum rule or broken law on the site from picking your preferred gender should work (or change the descriptor to Preferred Gender or something like that).

That way people won't feel like they're 'lying' and it'd show right off the bat that we're inclusive and that they can feel safe picking the gender they want to be accepted as.

Because it's pretty awkward calling someone 'he/she' and being corrected to 'she/he'. Better to have the option to check what they prefer on their page so as to just start off on the right reference.
pianotm
The TM is for Totally Magical.
32388
Libby, it's a text field now. You can put banana.
I just change mine to "Dude" because it reflects my true self.