SUPREME COURT STRIKES DOWN BANS ON GAY MARRIAGE IN US
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author=Solitayre
But you're trying to change the subject. This is how threads like this always get derailed. We had three pages of discussion in this thread, then someone caused a ten page derail. This keeps happening because we keep letting it happen and keep taking people's bait, and vociferously defend peoples' right to derail topics. This is how we kept letting Max derail something like three feminism threads. And then we wonder why topics like this always end up locked.
People are more than welcome to talk about religion, it certainly seems there's interest, but it needs to go in it's own thread, not here. Thanks.
that's how conversations work.
author=harmonic
It's threads like this that remind me why I'm a Libertarian.
Because ya'll are like BAN ALL THE THINGS! Differing opinion? KILL KILL KILL!
Stop banning shit. Stop censoring and silencing. Gays finally rightfully got the rights they deserve, so use this as an opportunity to come together, not cause even further divisions.
This mob mentality is the real danger here. You absolutely must allow for the free flow of ideas. Honestly, even though I am very much in favor of LGBT rights, they need to do a WAY better job respecting the rights of others to both have religious beliefs and dissenting opinions.
Banning, censoring, silencing is tyranny, folks.
EDIT: Oh wait, talking about religion was already banned in this thread. Oops.
calling someone out for saying something you don't like isn't silencing them or infringing on their rights in any way. it's just...using your voice, as a counter to theirs. nobody is being 'silenced' or calling for thoughts to be banned.
I don't know how some people think that gay marriage will lead to beastiality, pedophilia, and rape. Last I checked you don't need marriage to have sex. In fact I don't think it has too much impact on that. It might in 2015 but I think the last time I saw data on sex in the US most of it was pre-marital. That was around two years ago? Maybe three years...
Either way I can say this. If you wish to take an option off of the table because you don't like it you are closer to a Nazi then someone who would allow an option for those who do want it. No one is forcing that option on anyone, it's just there for those that want it. How exactly is using the law to get rid of that because you personally don't something any different than Hitler using his power over the military and law to get rid of Jews because he didn't like them? Especially considering the lengths people have already gone to in regards to planning and carrying out violence against gays now. I mean it really does reek of fascism.
Either way I can say this. If you wish to take an option off of the table because you don't like it you are closer to a Nazi then someone who would allow an option for those who do want it. No one is forcing that option on anyone, it's just there for those that want it. How exactly is using the law to get rid of that because you personally don't something any different than Hitler using his power over the military and law to get rid of Jews because he didn't like them? Especially considering the lengths people have already gone to in regards to planning and carrying out violence against gays now. I mean it really does reek of fascism.
And there goes the thread. Yay.
"Let's equate everyone who doesn't like the idea of gay marriage to Hitler. That'll allow for meaningful discourse!"
Seriously...?
Grow.
Up.
Not everyone who has an issue with it has the same reasons, motives or thoughts as others who do. You're basically trying to blanket any dissenting voices in the same tarnished cloth, making no distinction at all.
No topic is ever clear-cut white and black. Only an immature mind would believe that.
People have their reasons to be against this law being passed and judging them as equal to murderers because of it is, frankly, ridiculous and, in a word, stupid.
"Let's equate everyone who doesn't like the idea of gay marriage to Hitler. That'll allow for meaningful discourse!"
Seriously...?
Grow.
Up.
Not everyone who has an issue with it has the same reasons, motives or thoughts as others who do. You're basically trying to blanket any dissenting voices in the same tarnished cloth, making no distinction at all.
No topic is ever clear-cut white and black. Only an immature mind would believe that.
People have their reasons to be against this law being passed and judging them as equal to murderers because of it is, frankly, ridiculous and, in a word, stupid.
author=Liberty
And there goes the thread. Yay.
"Let's equate everyone who doesn't like the idea of gay marriage to Hitler. That'll allow for meaningful discourse!"
Seriously...?
Grow.
Up.
Godwin's Law:
http://www.businessinsider.com/godwins-law-why-someone-always-brings-up-adolf-hitler-2014-2
The further an online discussion goes, it's bound to be linked back to Nazis and Hitler at some point.
It's silly, considering that he's not exactly the most heinous of dictators the world has ever seen. He's not even the one who killed the most people. He just had a much better PR team (or much worse, considering the others were all swept under the rug and all).
I don't see people using, say, Ghengis Khan as an example instead. Nope, always with the Hitler. :/
I don't see people using, say, Ghengis Khan as an example instead. Nope, always with the Hitler. :/
Of all the things that have come out of this thread, finding out that Liberty thinks Hitler is treated unfairly by history is by far the most bizarre.
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author=Solitayre
Of all the things that have come out of this thread, finding out that Liberty thinks Hitler is treated unfairly by history is by far the most bizarre.
Oh ho ho! If you want bizarre, I know of some games that would make your head spin. They're not even on this site (or made in RPG Maker), that's how bizarre they are!
author=Solitayre
Of all the things that have come out of this thread, finding out that Liberty thinks Hitler is treated unfairly by history is by far the most bizarre.
Liberty's point still stands, though. Referencing Nazis and Hitler whenever somebody expresses an opinion against a ruling or idea has become an over-used cliche, and oftentimes used as a means to silence a particular group from expressing an opinion that another person doesn't like.
In other words, when somebody pulls out the Nazi / Hitler card to hinder a person's expression, they wind up looking more like the person they themselves are referencing.
Liberty
It's silly, considering that he's not exactly the most heinous of dictators the world has ever seen. He's not even the one who killed the most people.
>Didn't even kill the most people
>Lead reason the deadliest conflict in Human history occurred
Liberty
Nope, always with the Hitler. :/
Yeah, poor Hitler. We should really let up on the guy, amiright?
excuse me but the beginning of soddom that the moral jihadist court of the united states passed is actually 9/11 as gay terrorists flew into the twin towers of truth and rightousness on the wings of judicial tyrants
clearly this is not a case of the hitlers, now please report to the gaystapo so they can get you gay married to your dog
clearly this is not a case of the hitlers, now please report to the gaystapo so they can get you gay married to your dog
I don't think he was treated unfairly. I think that people focus too much on Hitler and use him as an example of Evil (TM) when there were worse people than him. Him being touted as 'THE MOST EVIL EVER' hides from view the other people out there who were just as bad if not worse.
- Atilla the Hun
- Stalin
- Pol Pot
- Mao
- King Leopold II of Belgium
- Robert Mugabe
- Genghis Khan
- Ismail Pasha
- Yakubu Gowan
- Mengitsu Haile Mariam
- Kim Il Sung
- Hideki Tojo
- Ivan the Terrible
- Himmler
Seriously, people jump on the Hitler wagon far too often when there are a bunch of other people who's crimes get 'forgotten' because everyone likes the sensationalism that pointing to Hitler brings. I'm not saying he wasn't a horrible, terrible person, but he's not the only horrible, terrible person out there and when people keep pointing to him as the epitome of evil, they forget that there were worse people than him. Not by much but still.
That said, calling someone who doesn't agree with your views and/or beliefs equal to Hitler (or any others on this list) is juvenile and pathetic. Last I heard, no-one on this site had gone around killing people.
- Atilla the Hun
- Stalin
- Pol Pot
- Mao
- King Leopold II of Belgium
- Robert Mugabe
- Genghis Khan
- Ismail Pasha
- Yakubu Gowan
- Mengitsu Haile Mariam
- Kim Il Sung
- Hideki Tojo
- Ivan the Terrible
- Himmler
Seriously, people jump on the Hitler wagon far too often when there are a bunch of other people who's crimes get 'forgotten' because everyone likes the sensationalism that pointing to Hitler brings. I'm not saying he wasn't a horrible, terrible person, but he's not the only horrible, terrible person out there and when people keep pointing to him as the epitome of evil, they forget that there were worse people than him. Not by much but still.
That said, calling someone who doesn't agree with your views and/or beliefs equal to Hitler (or any others on this list) is juvenile and pathetic. Last I heard, no-one on this site had gone around killing people.
I agree there's no good argument against marriage equality (a thing that affects no one negatively and many, many people positively) but I agree with Liberty that we should do our best to understand where people are coming from, if only so we can know how people end up keeping harmful and archaic opinions in the first place.
I mean, it seems so obvious that marriage equality is a good thing, right? Why do people fight it so vehemently? I have a hard time believing that everyone is just pointlessly cruel. "Know thy enemy", or something like that.
I mean, it seems so obvious that marriage equality is a good thing, right? Why do people fight it so vehemently? I have a hard time believing that everyone is just pointlessly cruel. "Know thy enemy", or something like that.
author=SatedNo topic is ever clear-cut white and black. Only an immature mind would believe that.There are actually lots of topics that are clear-cut. To say that there aren't any topics that are clear-cut is in itself saying that the topic of whether or not there are topics that are clear-cut is clear-cut and so the statement defeats itself.
There's no good argument against gay marriage; at least none that I've seen whilst this has been going on. Since I highly doubt that anyone is going to come up with one, this issue is pretty clear-cut as far as I'm concerned. It's not even like this is a complex issue where there are lots of factors to consider.
People have already mentioned in this topic legit reasons why this, as a law, is a bad idea - because it shouldn't be up to the government to make that call. You'll note that I was quite particular with my language in that post, talking about the law itself, not the actual equality allowed in a marriage. If you'd bothered to read instead of just pick a piece and try to make an argument out of it, of course.
And there's always some circumstance that can be argued against any topic to make it grey instead of just black and white. Always. The world has never been and will never be a place of definites. There will ALWAYS be possiblities and reasons outside of your narrow world view that will count as valid arguments against/for something that may SEEM cut and dried. It's inevitable.
'Good' reasons against gay marriage as proposed by the scientific community:
- Stagnation of the race in the case that it becomes too wide-spread.
- Opens the doors to other, less-accepted forms of marriage like incest and the like
Other reasons:
- Forces others to accept ideals that they don't believe in.
- Children being bullied over their different parents.
The last one I can understand as that is what happened to my mother - she was bullied an incredible amount as a child and teenager because her mother was homosexual. It didn't help that her mother started a relationship with a girl her daughters' age (when they were about 19/20, who she'd also part-raised). This has led to extreme homophobia on my mother's part and she has passed that down to 4/6 of her kids. The two exceptions are myself (pansexual) and my sister (who accepted my coming out about 2 weeks ago... after I came out to my mother hours earlier).
That kind of bullying can be a hard cross to bear for a child and in my mother's case, it led to a very rough childhood for her and her sisters who were all accused of being lesbians, beaten up by other girls, attacked by boys, ignored by authority figures because of their mother being what she was, and just having a shitty early life in general.
That said, I'm just playing Devil's Advocate here. I don't believe any but the last point (and that, I feel, will be erased with the opening of hearts and minds on the issue, by making it a normal thing).
Frankly, I don't preclude there being a good argument against it... from someone else's point of view. Just because it doesn't seem like a good reason to you doesn't mean they don't have reason to feel that way OR that their thoughts on the matter don't count.
author=GreatRedSpirit
clearly this is not a case of the hitlers, now please report to the gaystapo so they can get you gay married to your dog
You can get a case of hitlers now? I thought they only came in 6 packs.
Yes I'm being flippant, it happens every time Godwin's gets invoked, I just can't help myself.
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Slash, people fight it because they disagree with it, the same way you or I would fight something we disagreed with, though I'm making the assumption you, like I, would use logic rather than religion. In this case though it doesn't matter. They lost, everyone else won. It's time to celebrate before we gear up for the next fight in this struggle.






















