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Euphorian
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CloseMade fun of? If you're talking about Mr.Minotaur there for a girlfriend, I wouldn't be surprised if Chaos was -waiting- for someone to put that up for. Don't take it personally.
As for me...
Well, I never really got over my ex, even though we broke up back in... March, and I have no contact with her at all, and she moved out of state (which is why we split up).
So. I've just been stuck here in a swamp of bleh.
As for me...
Well, I never really got over my ex, even though we broke up back in... March, and I have no contact with her at all, and she moved out of state (which is why we split up).
So. I've just been stuck here in a swamp of bleh.
Details, good sir, details! And no, I just dislike the term "GF", it makes it sound like ladies are something to be gone through like tissue papers. So SA got a Guardian Force from FF8 instead.
SuicideAngel
220
I take a lot of things personally - it's another personality defect I have x_o
And what kind of guarantee is it Chaos? XD
And what kind of guarantee is it Chaos? XD
Euphorian
80
What details do you want? That's all there is to it, really. At 4:06 PM on Febuary 17th she sent me a text asking if it would be easier if we just went back to being friends, as she would have to move during spring break, and we both realized that an LDR between us would never worked. I agreed. She sent me a final text saying "I still love you, you know."
During spring break, I saw her online and talked to her, and learned her dad threatened to take legal action against her mom, if her mom made her move to Nebraska, so she didn't have to move. She soon had to go. I never talked to her again after that, as I never saw her online, and I heard through the grapevine that she broke her phone, by accidentally leaving it in the laundry.
At a Halloween party a couple weeks ago., I heard from a friend she introduced me to at her school's talent show, and who happened to be a great childhood friend of one of my friends from first grade who happens to go to my school now, that she stopped going to that school, and no one knew for sure why, but it was determined that the most likely cause was she had to move to Nebraska after all.
And that was that.
During spring break, I saw her online and talked to her, and learned her dad threatened to take legal action against her mom, if her mom made her move to Nebraska, so she didn't have to move. She soon had to go. I never talked to her again after that, as I never saw her online, and I heard through the grapevine that she broke her phone, by accidentally leaving it in the laundry.
At a Halloween party a couple weeks ago., I heard from a friend she introduced me to at her school's talent show, and who happened to be a great childhood friend of one of my friends from first grade who happens to go to my school now, that she stopped going to that school, and no one knew for sure why, but it was determined that the most likely cause was she had to move to Nebraska after all.
And that was that.
Ouch.
Let me tell you now that it's not just boys that get the 'Let's just be friends' line. Last guy I really, really liked enough to ask out (this is a few years now) was a great friend and though we went out for a few days, he gave me the dreaded line. S'Fine, though. Turned out he was homosexual. Still love him, but as a close friend.
Advice: take as you will
As to relations with women - let me give some advice. If you have a 'friend' that you like a lot, remember that she likes you enough to let you hang around her. That means that she likes you more than a lot of other guys. Girls oft-times do like guys that are their friends romantically - believe me. ^///^ (I've had high-school girl-talk EXP with this one - I'm a LV 87 Confidant)
It may be that she is just waiting for you to ask her, or show a sign that you like her as more than a friend. For all you know, she may be just as afraid of showing her feelings as you, so if neither of you take the first step, there goes a potential life partner (in largest case scenario).
Don't be too afraid of messing up a friendship by letting her know of a potential relationship. A simple 'sorry' if it doesn't work out and assuring her that even if she says no you still want to remain friends (and that you won't stalk her) is a good idea. ^.^
Let me tell you now that it's not just boys that get the 'Let's just be friends' line. Last guy I really, really liked enough to ask out (this is a few years now) was a great friend and though we went out for a few days, he gave me the dreaded line. S'Fine, though. Turned out he was homosexual. Still love him, but as a close friend.
Advice: take as you will
As to relations with women - let me give some advice. If you have a 'friend' that you like a lot, remember that she likes you enough to let you hang around her. That means that she likes you more than a lot of other guys. Girls oft-times do like guys that are their friends romantically - believe me. ^///^ (I've had high-school girl-talk EXP with this one - I'm a LV 87 Confidant)
It may be that she is just waiting for you to ask her, or show a sign that you like her as more than a friend. For all you know, she may be just as afraid of showing her feelings as you, so if neither of you take the first step, there goes a potential life partner (in largest case scenario).
Don't be too afraid of messing up a friendship by letting her know of a potential relationship. A simple 'sorry' if it doesn't work out and assuring her that even if she says no you still want to remain friends (and that you won't stalk her) is a good idea. ^.^
VerifyedRasta
581
Anyone who is stuck in the friend zone, don't feel bad because I'm stuck in that zone with EVERY girl i know ...
They all think I'm so funny and crazy, but never take me seriously ...
Girl: "Haha your so funny!"
Me: "Yea be my GF"
Girl: "Huh?"
Me: "Oh nothing"
They think I'm joking ... -_-
btw that's not a REAL example up there, I've never asked a girl to be my gf, I always imply it and it works out SOMETIMES (1/100 times).
So everyone thinks I'm just the funny friend ... It's getting annoying now
They all think I'm so funny and crazy, but never take me seriously ...
Girl: "Haha your so funny!"
Me: "Yea be my GF"
Girl: "Huh?"
Me: "Oh nothing"
They think I'm joking ... -_-
btw that's not a REAL example up there, I've never asked a girl to be my gf, I always imply it and it works out SOMETIMES (1/100 times).
So everyone thinks I'm just the funny friend ... It's getting annoying now
author=SuicideAngel link=topic=2473.msg44759#msg44759 date=1226900431
I know that >_< My mom keeps saying that whenever I mention a girl (the insecurity thing, not the layed thing XD)
It's not that I'm nervous about the girls - I'm nervous about changing myself. I'm pretty happy with how I am, I don't wanna change something to try and get a gf and lose all teh friends I have.
Oh come the hell on that sounds like such a cop out. Getting a girlfriend doesn't mean that you'll have to change every fiber of your being and lose all your friends. Sure, it may call for dressing better and properly grooming yourself, but who's going to complain about that?
As far as insecurity and whatnot my (general, as in; to everyone) suggestion is that you man up and start thinking better of yourself. This is a healthy step all around, women or not.
"Guys with no risk/initiative usually aren't bold enough to get the girl, because some scumbag who wasn't taught critical thinking skills won't 2nd guess himself when approaching a woman, and will make no fuss about generating some sort of false mystique as an attraction tool, whereas the nice guy will wear his heart on his sleve, making him easy prey and thus, not appealing."
Hahaha, that's a good way of putting it. However, there is a healthy balance where you can still be a decent guy with a sense of risk, initiative, and confidence and get women. You just have to not look at yourself as a joke and actually be desirable.
Emphasis on be desirable. If you want a girl/guy you have to present yourself as someone that's actually a prize.
SuicideAngel
220
Feld, you're not making it easy for me to stay out of moronic -_-
I dress fine, and I take care of myself - I'm offended you don't think I do.
I dress fine, and I take care of myself - I'm offended you don't think I do.
I never said you didn't dress fine or that you don't take care of yourself. Stop being so sensitive.
Which brings up a good point; if you're naturally sensitive, that's not a bad trait; many girls say that men aren't sensitive ENOUGH. Sensitivity helps being on tune with women and their needs.
HOWEVER, there's a difference between a healthy sensitivity and being so thin skinned that everything offends you and hurts your feelings and makes you hide in a corner.
Which won't get anyone anywhere.
HOWEVER, there's a difference between a healthy sensitivity and being so thin skinned that everything offends you and hurts your feelings and makes you hide in a corner.
Which won't get anyone anywhere.
By sheer luck and probably no virtues of my own, I have done fairly well at remaining in relationships ever since 12th grade (up till then I was a total loser.)
I haven't been in many relationships but the ones I have been in are long. Generally girls ask me out; the two times I worked up the courage to ask a girl out, it didn't go well. The former time was asking my ex to get back together with me; she didn't. I can't blame her. The second time succeeded (it was a rebound from the aforementioned ex) but ultimately lead to the most destructive relationship I was ever in. Long and complicated story, but most of the bad stuff happened after I broke up with her.
Er, I have a super bad habit of breaking up with girls for legitimate reasons and then becoming obsessed with them/crippled by regret and wrecking my life trying to get back with them. It's like I can't stick to a decision.
Anyway, I mean, girls tend to ask me out and I've been in two long term, serious, totally satisfactory relationships and I'm in one now.
What I've never experienced or had any success with is hooking up with girls outside of relationships. I've never completeda drunken mistake one night stand. I just don't have the confidence/suavity required. (My greatest accomplishment of "pimpery" is that I have no less than frequently hosted parties where I have induced hot girls to make out with each other for the entertainment of all, but that's about it.) If I work on girls at all, it's over a long period of time, as a gradual almost subliminal influence.
That's the one reason I would hesitate to marry the wonderful girl I'm with now and that I've been with for the last two years. I simply have not AT ALL sowed my wild oats yet.
I haven't been in many relationships but the ones I have been in are long. Generally girls ask me out; the two times I worked up the courage to ask a girl out, it didn't go well. The former time was asking my ex to get back together with me; she didn't. I can't blame her. The second time succeeded (it was a rebound from the aforementioned ex) but ultimately lead to the most destructive relationship I was ever in. Long and complicated story, but most of the bad stuff happened after I broke up with her.
Er, I have a super bad habit of breaking up with girls for legitimate reasons and then becoming obsessed with them/crippled by regret and wrecking my life trying to get back with them. It's like I can't stick to a decision.
Anyway, I mean, girls tend to ask me out and I've been in two long term, serious, totally satisfactory relationships and I'm in one now.
What I've never experienced or had any success with is hooking up with girls outside of relationships. I've never completed
That's the one reason I would hesitate to marry the wonderful girl I'm with now and that I've been with for the last two years. I simply have not AT ALL sowed my wild oats yet.
Canuck
0
In high school there was many chances I could've asked a girls I liked out, and I never did. Most probably would've said no, but at the ripe old age or 24 I tell myself: I didn't even fucking try, there's no right to complain about anything. After I realized that it's easy to talk to girls, and that asking girls out isn't a big deal (far too late in life: after high school), I kicked myself for not having balls in high school.
I can no longer find what's so embarrassing in the comment "I'm interested in you, wanna get dinner?" although in high school it seemed like social suicide for some reason. Stupid me. What a waste of high school.
So to people in high school, it's better to fall flat on your face than never try. I guess people outside of high school as well. I guess it's just more obvious once you're out of high school.
I can no longer find what's so embarrassing in the comment "I'm interested in you, wanna get dinner?" although in high school it seemed like social suicide for some reason. Stupid me. What a waste of high school.
So to people in high school, it's better to fall flat on your face than never try. I guess people outside of high school as well. I guess it's just more obvious once you're out of high school.
VerifyedRasta
581
author=Canuck link=topic=2473.msg44812#msg44812 date=1226907276
In high school there was many chances I could've asked a girls I liked out, and I never did. Most probably would've said no, but at the ripe old age or 24 I tell myself: I didn't even fucking try, there's no right to complain about anything. After I realized that it's easy to talk to girls, and that asking girls out isn't a big deal (far too late in life: after high school), I kicked myself for not having balls in high school.
I can no longer find what's so embarrassing in the comment "I'm interested in you, wanna get dinner?" although in high school it seemed like social suicide for some reason. Stupid me. What a waste of high school.
So to people in high school, it's better to fall flat on your face than never try. I guess people outside of high school as well. I guess it's just more obvious once you're out of high school.
I wish I would have read this post when I was in High school
suzuricho
283
I'm not the typical girl here, but I think you misunderstand somewhat.
I wouldn't date someone I didn't feel could be my best friend first. *shrug* I never dated a complete stranger. First off, if we didn't like the same things and couldn't bond like friends, what the hell was I going to do on a date with this guy? I don't talk very well to people I don't know in person, and that's the best way of breaking the ice and KEEPING IT OPEN. People always wonder how to break the ice, but they never remember that the ice needs to stay open for a relationship to continue... I don't understand those movies that deal with guys in the "friend zone", really. I have guy friends, yeah, but save Asa - all my guy friends are the same.
Are you guys just wanting to get busy, or are you looking for a meaningful relationship? Because if you're just wanting sex, I won't bother giving you any advice. It's wrong to the female genderunless you have something I want, I can be bribed and I want plushies of my favorite game characters! no matter how much I don't really like 'em as a whole.
And don't doubt the power of online, either, because I have had wonderful things happen because of online relationships. <3 Then again, I've only really had two serious relationships, and the second one I married.
*scoots out of the topic*
I wouldn't date someone I didn't feel could be my best friend first. *shrug* I never dated a complete stranger. First off, if we didn't like the same things and couldn't bond like friends, what the hell was I going to do on a date with this guy? I don't talk very well to people I don't know in person, and that's the best way of breaking the ice and KEEPING IT OPEN. People always wonder how to break the ice, but they never remember that the ice needs to stay open for a relationship to continue... I don't understand those movies that deal with guys in the "friend zone", really. I have guy friends, yeah, but save Asa - all my guy friends are the same.
Are you guys just wanting to get busy, or are you looking for a meaningful relationship? Because if you're just wanting sex, I won't bother giving you any advice. It's wrong to the female gender
And don't doubt the power of online, either, because I have had wonderful things happen because of online relationships. <3 Then again, I've only really had two serious relationships, and the second one I married.
*scoots out of the topic*
Because if you're just wanting sex, I won't bother giving you any advice. It's wrong to the female gender
Wait, huh? Last time I checked, I thought casual sex encounters were consensual by both genders.
Canuck
0
People who only want sex and don't let on that they only want sex and imply that they perhaps want something more are being mean.
People who only want sex and meet up with other people who only want sex aren't doing anything that's not fair.
People who only want sex and meet up with other people who only want sex aren't doing anything that's not fair.
VerifyedRasta
581
I hate when other guys that only want sex, talk to girls I like (That are nice girls that don't only want sex btw) and make it seem like they don't only want sex ... (If that makes sence) :-\
