HOW TO APPROACH A GIRL YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO
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This has always been a huge problem for me. How do you guys approach women you'd like to pursue a relationship with?
The first person to mention sex....I'll....be really mad at.
The first person to mention sex....I'll....be really mad at.
A question not even I know the answer to. I don't really think anyone does. It depends on the female!
the russell brand method: act immensely camp to woo ladies
alternatively become a sex / drug / both addict
alternatively become a sex / drug / both addict
RELATIONSHIP TOPIC MARK III GO
Geo, watch out. He's really mad at you.
As for my tip: Grow your hair. No, longer than what you're thinking. No, longer than that. Okay, that's about right.
Stolen for Brickroad's notes
Geo, watch out. He's really mad at you.
As for my tip: Grow your hair. No, longer than what you're thinking. No, longer than that. Okay, that's about right.
Stolen for Brickroad's notes
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How do you guys approach women you'd like to pursue a relationship with?
It depends on how well you already know her.
i bags topic IV. the OP shall be a sensationalist and occasionally surreal ramble at my varying attempts to woo / fucking reach a particular lady.
well, women aren't really that hard to figure out. girls want it just as bad as guys do.
and i know you're not looking for sex, but are you really looking for a relationship? how well do you know this woman? are you friends with her? do you know her friends? are you stalking her?
it's a very situational thing, but the main thing is you just gotta put yourself out there and talk to her. find some common ground and if/when you feel comfortable around her, ask her out. if she says yes, you know she's at least interested in you.
but don't go in the playing field with the goal of being in a relationship. its a step-by-step process. get to know her, and let her know who you are. she can only be as close to you as you let her be.
and i know you're not looking for sex, but are you really looking for a relationship? how well do you know this woman? are you friends with her? do you know her friends? are you stalking her?
it's a very situational thing, but the main thing is you just gotta put yourself out there and talk to her. find some common ground and if/when you feel comfortable around her, ask her out. if she says yes, you know she's at least interested in you.
but don't go in the playing field with the goal of being in a relationship. its a step-by-step process. get to know her, and let her know who you are. she can only be as close to you as you let her be.
I'll start off by saying I sympathize with your dilemma.
But, the only advice I can give is the advice I consider the only bit worth taking: Don't take advice. The only way to learn how to deal with this kind of thing is experience and falling on your ass. A lot.
That said, there is a method to the madness. That said, the sheer diversity of women means that no one approach will work for every situation. That's why "Be yourself" and its variants will most likely compose the majority of advice offered in this thread.
But, the only advice I can give is the advice I consider the only bit worth taking: Don't take advice. The only way to learn how to deal with this kind of thing is experience and falling on your ass. A lot.
That said, there is a method to the madness. That said, the sheer diversity of women means that no one approach will work for every situation. That's why "Be yourself" and its variants will most likely compose the majority of advice offered in this thread.
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That said, they sheer diversity of women means that no one approach will work for every situation.
This is sort of true. True as in different things work for different situation/woman, but false because women (and people in general) are fairly predictable beings given a particular situation or general personality.
Hmm...
Nothing said here really helps, but I get what you guys are saying...sort of.
Also, geodude, I'm really really mad at you!
Nothing said here really helps, but I get what you guys are saying...sort of.
Also, geodude, I'm really really mad at you!
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If you are looking for advice, gotta give the background bub.
I don't quite follow...
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Can you give us some background on the situation?
Lots of situations. I'm just kinda shy when it comes to good looking girls. I REALLY want to go and talk to 'em, but I get locked up and make a fool out of myself. I was looking for general advice through this thread, but from what you guys are saying, I guess there isn't any. Thanks anyways though.
WTF
You can't just ask a general question like "HOW DO I GET HOT CHICKS". That's strike number one. When we say; "We need background", it's exactly what it is; we need background information on the question you're asking us. Is there a specific girl you're trying to get the attention of? What type of personality do you have? What are you attracted to? Are you in college? Do you work? Do you attend social events? What kind of friends do you have? What are your hobbies? Do you have any turn offs? Do you like brown sugar?
I mean there are a multitude of variations on the type of advice we can give you, so when you ask a general question, don't go all "THE ADVICE SUCKED THANKS ANYWAY" when you get some general answers.
You can't just ask a general question like "HOW DO I GET HOT CHICKS". That's strike number one. When we say; "We need background", it's exactly what it is; we need background information on the question you're asking us. Is there a specific girl you're trying to get the attention of? What type of personality do you have? What are you attracted to? Are you in college? Do you work? Do you attend social events? What kind of friends do you have? What are your hobbies? Do you have any turn offs? Do you like brown sugar?
I mean there are a multitude of variations on the type of advice we can give you, so when you ask a general question, don't go all "THE ADVICE SUCKED THANKS ANYWAY" when you get some general answers.