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Isrieri
"My father told me this would happen."
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And I'm 23 years old so I'm not talking about a fucking puppydog lovey-dovey "Oh she's so pretty" kind of crush. I mean I actually want to get to know this girl. I have never ever felt compelled to talk to someone - I stayed a half-hour after work tonight to get the chance to talk to her. And most of it was me sitting at the bar in silence because I'VE FORGOTTEN HOW.

TEACH ME HOW TO TALK AGAIN
Isrieri
"My father told me this would happen."
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I'M TRYING TO BE SERIOUS HERE
Hey, post something like that on RMN and you should expect that kind of response.

I have nothing helpful to say.
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Well, that's a King looking ...what could be classified as worried, like the OP. But then he strikes a sexy pose and appears very confident and more appealing to his Queen. So just be confident and treat her like a Queen. And sing songs to her?
you know how singing and Queen are related? Freddie Mercury. you know what Freddie was? gay. don't bother with ladies.
edchuy
You the practice of self-promotion
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author=mawk
you know how singing and Queen are related? Freddie Mercury. you know what Freddie was? gay. don't bother with ladies.


Fat Bottomed Girls
someone get this man a skip-it
I'll answer seriously then, as it seems none of these jokers are willing to.

Talk to her. Get to know her. It's hard, but the biggest challenge is the first step. Just keep this in mind - nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Do you want to look back in 10, 20 years and feel regret for not taking action? Because if you don't take the chance, it's a very real possibility that you will. Take it from one who knows.

/regrets! Regrets up to the ears! All the might-have-beens and what-ifs that I didn't act on because of fear. And I regret them so much.

So take a deep breath, gather your courage, look her square in the eyes and say hello. Ask her how her day's been so far. Tell her you think she has a pretty smile/eyes/hair - only the truth, though. And then talk. At the end of the day you've either opened a channel of communication for the future or have a funny anecdote to tell to your future children about, showing them that in the world of love messing up isn't the be-all, end-all.

If nothing else, you may gain a friend, which is just as precious.

Good luck!
The truth is definitely something you want to have right from the beginning. People can be oddly reactive to it.

Also that king gif is the best thing, just saying.
and wear a crown

dudes and ladies dig a dude or a lady in a crown
author=Gourd_Clae
Also that king gif is the best thing, just saying.


AND YOU THOUGHT POSTING THIS AS A STATUS IS MORE SAFER

this is a site full of nerds, what did ya expect anyways x_X

in all seriousness though, what Libby said. you're 23, what more could you lose xd
'The more you put in, the more you'll get out,' or something like that... so make the effort to reach out. Good luck!
edchuy
You the practice of self-promotion
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Now seriously speaking, the only way to find out what's going is putting yourself out there. By taking action, you won't have the excuse of "what ifs", even if it results in crushing rejection. Perhaps you'll find out it's just physical attraction and are put off by her personality, or, maybe you'll find that there is reciprocity and there might be a future for you two. Anyway, just be yourself and let the dice roll ...
yeah, in all seriousness as long as you don't panic and have fun with what you do things should turn out okay

the toughest part by far is just the first conversation. after that point you've got some common ground.

and remember that while you might feel awkward just speaking with someone you've never met out of nowhere, odds are they'll be happy for the company. the situation other people are in is much like yours, and everyone likes to have a friend to tough it out with.
Isrieri
"My father told me this would happen."
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author=ivoryjones
AND YOU THOUGHT POSTING THIS AS A STATUS IS MORE SAFER


You're saying that as if I wasn't expecting it. I know where I'm posting things!


author=Liberty
Do you want to look back in 10, 20 years and feel regret for not taking action? Because if you don't take the chance, it's a very real possibility that you will. Take it from one who knows.


I felt the same way. Honestly I don't think I've had a bad conversation with her so far - I'm just trying to not come across too strong since she's soft-spoken and keeps herself occupied with work: I'm like that myself and it always feels sudden when someone just starts talking to me out of the blue.

I can go up and talk to her, I just have nothing to say. I'm practicing with other friends at work to re-learn how to keep conversations going.

author=mawk
and wear a crown

dudes and ladies dig a dude or a lady in a crown


Yo I know for a fact ladies dig guys in flat caps.


author=mawk
while you might feel awkward just speaking with someone you've never met out of nowhere, odds are they'll be happy for the company.


I suppose that's true too!
Don't bother with gurls. They just waste valuable RM time.

;-;
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