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Relationships are hard. I would honestly from the bottom of my heart prefer to dig ditches all day.
Isrieri- 04/22/2014 11:18 PM
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CloseYou can't cuddle a ditch. ...Well, I suppose you could. I'm just not sure it would be a satisfying experience.
Digging ditches would be satisfying work and make me feel better after a long day of it. Trying to be friendly and outgoing make me want to smash my head against the wall. There's something about talking with a person face-to-face that sends my brain into autopliot: I can be courteous and kind, but when it comes to being 'friendly' like going out to hang out and stuff? Can't do it.
Like. There's this girl I keep trying to talk to because I figure she wants to be friends and I want to be her friend but whenever we talk its like
"Hey."
"Hi."
*Comment about day*
*Question about comment*
*Answer*
"So I'll see you I guess?"
"Uh, sure. See you."
"Bye."
UGGGGGH Why can't I TALK?! Why can't I take the initiative to hang out with people?! I don't have anyplace to be, I'm not doing anything!
*HEADDESK* *HEADDESK* *HEADDESK*
The problem is less that I desire friends, but rather that I'm infuriated with myself for not reaching out.
Like. There's this girl I keep trying to talk to because I figure she wants to be friends and I want to be her friend but whenever we talk its like
"Hey."
"Hi."
*Comment about day*
*Question about comment*
*Answer*
"So I'll see you I guess?"
"Uh, sure. See you."
"Bye."
UGGGGGH Why can't I TALK?! Why can't I take the initiative to hang out with people?! I don't have anyplace to be, I'm not doing anything!
*HEADDESK* *HEADDESK* *HEADDESK*
author=Pizza
Just have a fictional girlfriend like me.
The problem is less that I desire friends, but rather that I'm infuriated with myself for not reaching out.
@Addit: Hahahahahahaha! XDXD
I'm painfully, terribly shy in real life. So I can completely relate; small talk is terrible and it's hard. The key is to find a common interest. If there's something you both like, talking about it becomes a lot easier.
But then there's still the lack of cuddles. I, personally, gotta have them cuddles.
author=Isrieri
UGGGGGH Why can't I TALK?! Why can't I take the initiative to hang out with people?! I don't have anyplace to be, I'm not doing anything!
*HEADDESK* *HEADDESK* *HEADDESK*
I'm painfully, terribly shy in real life. So I can completely relate; small talk is terrible and it's hard. The key is to find a common interest. If there's something you both like, talking about it becomes a lot easier.
author=Pizza
Just have a fictional girlfriend like me. Guaranteed to work every time, 100% of the time.
But then there's still the lack of cuddles. I, personally, gotta have them cuddles.
author=Isrieri
Digging ditches would be satisfying work and make me feel better after a long day of it. Trying to be friendly and outgoing make me want to smash my head against the wall. There's something about talking with a person face-to-face that sends my brain into autopliot: I can be courteous and kind, but when it comes to being 'friendly' like going out to hang out and stuff? Can't do it.
Like. There's this girl I keep trying to talk to because I figure she wants to be friends and I want to be her friend but whenever we talk its like
"Hey."
"Hi."
*Comment about day*
*Question about comment*
*Answer*
"So I'll see you I guess?"
"Uh, sure. See you."
"Bye."
UGGGGGH Why can't I TALK?! Why can't I take the initiative to hang out with people?! I don't have anyplace to be, I'm not doing anything!
*HEADDESK* *HEADDESK* *HEADDESK*
author=Pizza
Just have a fictional girlfriend like me.
The problem is less that I desire friends, but rather that I'm infuriated with myself for not reaching out.
Then don't be friendly and outgoing. Relationships don't require you to be an actor. Relationships are like farts: if you have to force it, it's probably shit.
A real relationship happens whether you like or not, it happens on its own, and you stick with each other through the good and the bad and in this life, there is more than enough bad to be had.
Corfaisus
"It's frustrating because - as much as Corf is otherwise an irredeemable person - his 2k/3 mapping is on point." ~ psy_wombats
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You shouldn't actively fret about what you don't have, that way lies suffering. It's clear you have an interest in this girl, but if you let it eat away at you, you'll just become another creep. Socialize wherever you can and find solace in that. If you never find someone to cuddle with, that's okay. You start with nothing, you end with nothing. What do you lose? Nothing.
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