HAVE YOU EVER CRIED FOR SOMEONE?

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Well first off all, now that I really decide to write this topic, this does sounds kinda pathetic haha... but either way, let's just get down to it. Well, I actually I'm the type of person that rarely ever cry or get sad. There has been two girls in my lifetime that let's say I have loved or whatever... the first time around It wasn't like the second time, since I was younger and really, relationships as much intense as I thought they were, weren't really a big deal for sad moments to really strike me this bad lol.

The second time I had strong feelings for someone, it was a whole different story... it was something more complicated, in all terms. There were times that I actually ended up crying, for many reasons, not because I was too soft or whatever... I mean, I'm sure that you probably met an specific someone that you get that reflects that whole positive change in you... make you inspired enough to become that someone that you really want to be.

In most cases, loosing someone who had great influence over you, makes you feel uneasy, sad, or whatever the case... while this is in my past completely, I just wonder if anyone of you have gotten into similar situations. Share your views now.
Well I mourned for dead people if that counts.
harmonic
It's like toothpicks against a tank
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I would be shocked if someone has never, ever cried for someone, at the very least because of a death in the family.
I've never cried for a family member (not yet at least, I'm actually expecting myself to feel really bad when my parents pass on...)

I have cried over a girl before; two actually. Now that I think back on it, both instances were idiotic and I thought I was stupid for crying about them. I hope I never cry again!
author=Mitsuhide_The_Vagrant link=topic=3369.msg67140#msg67140 date=1237575864
I've never cried for a family member (not yet at least, I'm actually expecting myself to feel really bad when my parents pass on...)

I have cried over a girl before; two actually. Now that I think back on it, both instances were idiotic and I thought I was stupid for crying about them. I hope I never cry again!

Sorry about the loss of your parents. That must have been really hard, I can't picture loosing both my parents, that would be devastating. And, no it's not idiotic to cry over past loves, in fact, it's something you can't really control, if things are as serious as I think they are. In my case, this girl that I was into, was something completely different to me than what I consider the average girl.
Starscream
Conquest is made from the ashes of one's enemies.
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author=antifarea link=topic=3369.msg67142#msg67142 date=1237577222
author=Mitsuhide_The_Vagrant link=topic=3369.msg67140#msg67140 date=1237575864
I've never cried for a family member (not yet at least, I'm actually expecting myself to feel really bad when my parents pass on...)

I have cried over a girl before; two actually. Now that I think back on it, both instances were idiotic and I thought I was stupid for crying about them. I hope I never cry again!

Sorry about the loss of your parents. That must have been really hard, I can't picture loosing both my parents, that would be devastating.

I think you need to reread what he wrote.
I'm not much of a crier when it comes to my own woes, but I've definitely shed tears out of empathy for others, and of course I've cried when I lost those close to me. When one of my grandmothers passed away when I was younger, I was really bawling over that when the news broke to me, especially considering it was relatively sudden. A few years back I cried over the 'heartbreak' (in retrospect it seems so silly now) at losing my high school girlfriend to college separation.

Considering how the girl herself turned out to be, or rather what I finally noticed about her once the rose glasses came off (she was not the best of people!) that seems really silly. Most recently though, I cried like a baby last year, when my mom was (and still is) really sick.
author=Feldschlacht IV link=topic=3369.msg67147#msg67147 date=1237581051
I'm not much of a crier when it comes to my own woes, but I've definitely shed tears out of empathy for others, and of course I've cried when I lost those close to me. When one of my grandmothers passed away when I was younger, I was really bawling over that when the news broke to me, especially considering it was relatively sudden. A few years back I cried over the 'heartbreak' (in retrospect it seems so silly now) at losing my high school girlfriend to college separation.

Considering how the girl herself turned out to be, or rather what I finally noticed about her once the rose glasses came off (she was not the best of people!) that seems really silly. Most recently though, I cried like a baby last year, when my mom was (and still is) really sick.

Yeah, I'm sure that I will feel the same if something similar happens to my parents. Well, yeah, like I said, looking back now, it feels kinda silly, but at that time, it wasn't as funny or silly...
I cried during Bambi.
author=antifarea link=topic=3369.msg67142#msg67142 date=1237577222
author=Mitsuhide_The_Vagrant link=topic=3369.msg67140#msg67140 date=1237575864
I've never cried for a family member (not yet at least, I'm actually expecting myself to feel really bad when my parents pass on...)

I have cried over a girl before; two actually. Now that I think back on it, both instances were idiotic and I thought I was stupid for crying about them. I hope I never cry again!

Sorry about the loss of your parents. That must have been really hard, I can't picture loosing both my parents, that would be devastating. And, no it's not idiotic to cry over past loves, in fact, it's something you can't really control, if things are as serious as I think they are. In my case, this girl that I was into, was something completely different to me than what I consider the average girl.

My parents are not dead yet. I just said I'm sure it's really going to hit home when they finally pass on, though.
Man, you must either have a thick skin or a very happy life! Two things to be grateful for, in my opinion.
I don't know what either of those really mean =/.

edit: as in, I can lay a truthful claim to neither.
Starscream
Conquest is made from the ashes of one's enemies.
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Anyone in this thread that is going to pretend that they don't cry (or at least not in the last decade) needs to drop the "lawl im cool on the interwebs" facade.
LouisCyphre
can't make a bad game if you don't finish any games
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I have a lot of trouble crying for someone ever since my grandpa died. He was basically the basis for my entire personality, and I can't think of anything since that's affected me that badly.

Also, in situations where normal people would cry and say "why me", I instead get angry and say "why not someone else?"
Is crying not cool? I cry when I get really sad... which is usually only after hearing someone else's bad news. Or in movies I guess. The end of Big Fish I wept like a madman.

I guess crying is exposing vulnerableness and dicks could potentially jump on that, but usually just one "yeah I cry, what's your point?" gets the dicks stumbling after loosing that ground they had.

LouisCyphre
can't make a bad game if you don't finish any games
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As an aside, I think it's terrible not to be able to cry. It's a needed outlet, just like yelling or hugs or what have you.
I get tired of ubermales, jocks, and tough guys who think crying is for the weak, or it makes you seem too "feminine". Yeah, being an emotionless rock when something bad happens is totally the epitome of manliness! :D :D :D

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author=Holbert link=topic=3369.msg67315#msg67315 date=1237697472
Anyone in this thread that is going to pretend that they don't cry (or at least not in the last decade) needs to drop the "lawl im cool on the interwebs" facade.

While I am probably the coolest kid in middle school, I really can't cry. It's all due to an unfortunate ramen cooking accident where I singed my tear ducts shut.
author=Atavus Dei link=topic=3369.msg67449#msg67449 date=1237760995
I get tired of ubermales, jocks, and tough guys who think crying is for the weak, or it makes you seem too "feminine". Yeah, being an emotionless rock when something bad happens is totally the epitome of manliness! :D :D :D

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Yeah, I agree... there are many stereotypes coming from these crowds, although some of them mean this as joking, it is something that can't be avoided... just like laughing, and I'm sure a lot of them do a lot of that towards people they dislike.
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