HOW TO APPROACH A GIRL YOU'RE ATTRACTED TO
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When you look at her, does her name appear as grey, green, yellow, orange, red, or purple? I can advise further based on that.
A big thing that would really help most awkward young guys would be to not think of girls as deities, but regular human beings (just like yourself!!).
If you are like oooooooooohhhh maaannnnnn it's a g-gg-girl whatamigoingtodo then you come off as weird/creepy no matter how much you try to hide it. ^.^;
If you are like oooooooooohhhh maaannnnnn it's a g-gg-girl whatamigoingtodo then you come off as weird/creepy no matter how much you try to hide it. ^.^;
post=85547ouch. That must've sucked.
Today, I asked out a girl. She had a boyfriend. No regrets. Luck is a factor.
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Today, I asked out a girl. She had a boyfriend. No regrets. Luck is a factor.
i hope this isn't sears girl :(
According to 8 out of 10 cats the best way to attract the attention of a girl is to compliment her.
I'll get back to you on that one.
I'll get back to you on that one.
if you ask me, a girl having a boyfriend is no reason not to stay in touch with her. because boyfriend simply means "uncommitted until something better comes along". Especially if said boyfriend is an asshole... then you're almost obligated to hit on the girl. I mean, assuming she returns some sort of interest in you.
I was pretty straightforward. She probably knew it was coming. The thing was mostly smiles and giggling. I thought twice about doing it but bit my nerve off and did it anyways. I looked decent and I was relaxed and friendly so, yeah, I can deal with that fate.
"Hi, how's it going?"
--"Good."
"Do you remember me?"
--"Hmmm, no. *giggles*"
"I bought a quilt....?"
--*laughs* "No, sorry."
"Oh, well, I was just gonna to ask you if maybe you wanted to hang out later."
--"Sorry, I have a boyfriend."
"Its okay. Just thought I'd ask."
--"Okay, well, see you later."
"Bye."
But in other news one of my upstairs neighbours is fairly attractive, so I may start going upstairs and eating out of their fridge more often.
"Hi, how's it going?"
--"Good."
"Do you remember me?"
--"Hmmm, no. *giggles*"
"I bought a quilt....?"
--*laughs* "No, sorry."
"Oh, well, I was just gonna to ask you if maybe you wanted to hang out later."
--"Sorry, I have a boyfriend."
"Its okay. Just thought I'd ask."
--"Okay, well, see you later."
"Bye."
But in other news one of my upstairs neighbours is fairly attractive, so I may start going upstairs and eating out of their fridge more often.
It is such an awesome quilt. You will like it.
Really I'm just nice. Plus I go along with what Ciel said, I don't act like they're gods, they are people.
Really I'm just nice. Plus I go along with what Ciel said, I don't act like they're gods, they are people.
I like to approach these situations like I do mostly in life; belligerently drunk.
See, if she can tolerate you at your worst, think of how easy it will be to talk to her sober.
Disclaimer: this post is 45% sarcasm, if you have a history of being a complete retard please ignore the above post and restrain from replying to it.
See, if she can tolerate you at your worst, think of how easy it will be to talk to her sober.
Disclaimer: this post is 45% sarcasm, if you have a history of being a complete retard please ignore the above post and restrain from replying to it.
post=85808
I like to approach these situations like I do mostly in life; belligerently drunk.
See, if she can tolerate you at your worst, think of how easy it will be to talk to her sober.
Disclaimer: this post is 45% sarcasm, if you have a history of being a complete retard please ignore the above post and restrain from replying to it.
45% sarcasm, but i tend to be alot more comfortable in social situations when i've been drinking. Not belligerently drunk necessarily, but the last few women I've hooked up with, including my current girlfriend, were founded on drunk conversations.
I like to approach these situations like I do mostly in life; belligerently drunk.
Masamune never, ever change.
Just do it. Stop worrying about doing it the right way. Just do it. Yeah, you may bomb but it's okay to fail at things. Really, it is.
This is something that men have to develop on their own.
Edit - Another little tidbit: every girl that you're interested in has a boyfriend. Every single one.
If she's interested in you or likes your approach, she'll say "No, I'm not seeing anyone."
If she's not interested in you, she'll be honest and say she's not single.
There you go...
This is something that men have to develop on their own.
Edit - Another little tidbit: every girl that you're interested in has a boyfriend. Every single one.
If she's interested in you or likes your approach, she'll say "No, I'm not seeing anyone."
If she's not interested in you, she'll be honest and say she's not single.
There you go...
post=84499
I'm just kinda shy when it comes to good looking girls. I REALLY want to go and talk to 'em, but I get locked up and make a fool out of myself.
You and me both brother. Luckily for me I'm in, let's say, SOME kind of relationship with a girl at the moment; I say I'm lucky because she's shy and nervous around me, just like you, so it's not as bad. :)
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I say I'm lucky because she's shy and nervous around me, just like you, so it's not as bad. :)
But if you're both shy, then aren't you all,
'oh..h-hello. a-and did you have a good day?'
'y-yes, th-th-thank you for asking.'
well..or something to that effect. you get my drift. theres probably less stuttering.
post=85953post=8580845% sarcasm, but i tend to be alot more comfortable in social situations when i've been drinking. Not belligerently drunk necessarily, but the last few women I've hooked up with, including my current girlfriend, were founded on drunk conversations.
I like to approach these situations like I do mostly in life; belligerently drunk.
See, if she can tolerate you at your worst, think of how easy it will be to talk to her sober.
Disclaimer: this post is 45% sarcasm, if you have a history of being a complete retard please ignore the above post and restrain from replying to it.
Yeah, it does help with some anxiety a little bit. I, on the other hand feel like everybody looks at me like the elephant man regardless so I just do what I feel. Maybe I should see a shrink?






















