I'M 20 AND I LOOK LIKE I AM 14.
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Alright, lets begin the critique.
Long sleved shirts? If they're too fluffy and thick, they make you look like a panzy, and a little fat. If you live in a cold place, try also wearing a vest over it.
You look good in sun-glasses. Sun-glasses can change a person's look entirely if used right.
Yes, work out. This is very important. I've seen people date the most out-of-shape people on the planet, but those people have some weight on them. It'd be even better for you if that weight was muscle mass.
Oh yeah, about your ears. Their fine, but if you are really unconfortable about them, you can use hoodies or ski hats.
Question: How long do you know the girls before you ask them out?
Long sleved shirts? If they're too fluffy and thick, they make you look like a panzy, and a little fat. If you live in a cold place, try also wearing a vest over it.
You look good in sun-glasses. Sun-glasses can change a person's look entirely if used right.
Yes, work out. This is very important. I've seen people date the most out-of-shape people on the planet, but those people have some weight on them. It'd be even better for you if that weight was muscle mass.
Oh yeah, about your ears. Their fine, but if you are really unconfortable about them, you can use hoodies or ski hats.
Question: How long do you know the girls before you ask them out?
My wife's sister is in a similar boat to you. She's currently 20, but could easily pass for 16. The problem was worse before she got a more adult haircut and stopped dressing like a 12 year old. This actually worked out to her advantage though, as she got a BF when she turned 18. I always tell her bf that she ruining him for life because if they break up, he's going to turn into a pedophile.
Anyway, the point I'm trying to make here is that sometimes this shit just happens. Not every guy turns into Manly McManlerton. That being said, though, I've seen your pictures, and the only way I think you could be mistaken for a 14 year old is because you have some roundness to your cheeks. Christ, compared to you, I look like a 14 year old. The real crux of making a good first impression on girls is how you act and carry yourself. If a girl's going to like you, she's going to like you in the first 1 or 2 times you see each other.
Anyway, the point I'm trying to make here is that sometimes this shit just happens. Not every guy turns into Manly McManlerton. That being said, though, I've seen your pictures, and the only way I think you could be mistaken for a 14 year old is because you have some roundness to your cheeks. Christ, compared to you, I look like a 14 year old. The real crux of making a good first impression on girls is how you act and carry yourself. If a girl's going to like you, she's going to like you in the first 1 or 2 times you see each other.
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Is 157 pounds that skinny to be considered a twig?
You wanna talk about skinny?!?! Do you really?!
I'm 21 and I weigh 130. I'm the skinniest motherfucker I know. >8[
Also, I'm 6'0"
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Dude, eat food.
Dude, you can ask anyone I know, I eat ALOT of food. I love food.
My metabolism is just as fast as fucking sonic the hedgehog.
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I know Feld loves telling people to work out, and it is probably best for them, but it's not the answer to everyone's question all the time.
Maybe not but working out does more than just improve you physically; endorphins are powerful!
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Maybe you have that...deficiency thing where you look younger than you are. Actually, no i'm pretty sure you would know if you had that.
If you think that your issue with finding girls is that you look too young, you're probably mistaken. Just remember, so many girls like confident men. If you think you have nothing going for yourself, then other people will start to believe it as well. Hell, act like a big headed idiot, at least you'll get more attention.
But you know what, you've got your life ahead of you to find a nice woman. :)
I look 18 and I'm 27. I keep getting asked when I'm graduating from high school/college. I'm not very confident either, cause I'd rather be a girl than a guy, so I'm not really happy in my own skin. But somehow, I manage okay, while not exactly finding a date. I just talk to girls, and try to listen as much as possible. Finding a date is a little trickier, since I don't like to be the one to ask (the above issue, I'd prefer to be more "girl-like" and let them make the first move).
post=115290I was about to say that's not too bad but then I fed 130 through the lbs->kg converter and holy fuck man.post=115210You wanna talk about skinny?!?! Do you really?!
Is 157 pounds that skinny to be considered a twig?
I'm 21 and I weigh 130. I'm the skinniest motherfucker I know. >8[
Also, I'm 6'0"
post=115292post=115291Dude, you can ask anyone I know, I eat ALOT of food. I love food.
Dude, eat food.
My metabolism is just as fast as fucking sonic the hedgehog.
I can assure you that you're not eating as much as you think you are.
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I eat until I'm full...I also am a glutton on Thanksgiving and Christmas.
I TOTALLY EAT LIKE 2 CHEESEBURGERS UNTIL I'M FULL ABOUT TWICE EVERY DAY I EAT SO MUCH
Nah, dude, I don't mean to make fun of you. But just like anyone else, you assuredly don't eat as much as you think you do if you don't ever gain any weight. What do you eat? How often? How much? What times? If you ever actually counted the calories every day you consume over a week's period, you'd be surprised.
(this philosophy also applies to losing weight)
Well...
I rarely eat breakfast. For the past year-and-a-half, I've barely eaten anything healthy...as in almost everything I ate was cooked in an oven or a microwave. I ALWAYS eat Lunch and Dinner.
So, it sounds like to me that you're saying it isn't possible for anyone to not gain weight. I personally like being this skinny, however, judging from the things I eat and whatnot, I sure as hell should have gained SOME weight this past year and a half. But, I'm still as thin as a fucking stick. I don't understand.
I rarely eat breakfast. For the past year-and-a-half, I've barely eaten anything healthy...as in almost everything I ate was cooked in an oven or a microwave. I ALWAYS eat Lunch and Dinner.
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...you assuredly don't eat as much as you think you do if you don't ever gain any weight.
So, it sounds like to me that you're saying it isn't possible for anyone to not gain weight. I personally like being this skinny, however, judging from the things I eat and whatnot, I sure as hell should have gained SOME weight this past year and a half. But, I'm still as thin as a fucking stick. I don't understand.
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Well...
I rarely eat breakfast. For the past year-and-a-half, I've barely eaten anything healthy...as in almost everything I ate was cooked in an oven or a microwave. I ALWAYS eat Lunch and Dinner.post=115317
...you assuredly don't eat as much as you think you do if you don't ever gain any weight.
So, it sounds like to me that you're saying it isn't possible for anyone to not gain weight. I personally like being this skinny, however, judging from the things I eat and whatnot, I sure as hell should have gained SOME weight this past year and a half. But, I still as thin as a fucking stick. I don't understand.
You don't eat breakfast? Well, that's probably pretty much it right there. You're not going to gain any weight if you're missing a whole meal, and if you had a slower metabolism and you were trying to LOSE weight, skipping breakfast will also work against you and you won't lose any weight. Skipping breakfast is a bad idea whether you're trying to gain or lose weight.
Like I said, a lot of it is when you eat, what you eat, and most important, how MUCH you eat. No matter the quality of your food or how fattening it is or whatever, if you just don't eat a lot, you're not going to gain weight no matter who you are. Even if you go "Well I ate three McDonalds hamburgers and they're so fattening but I'm still skinny" that isn't a lot because that's what, 1500 calories on its own? That's not a lot at all for a guy with a fast metabolism. The average weighted male needs about 2000 (give or take) calories daily just to keep your brain running.
Also, I'm not saying you SHOULD or SHOULDN'T gain weight or whatever. That's up to you. However the statement I had issue with was that you're saying you 'eat so much but don't gain any weight', which isn't true. If you're not gaining any weight at 6'0 and 130 pounds at that, no, you're not eating a lot (or more accurately, eating enough), sorry, unless you have a tapeworm or something.
I'm also a tall skinny guy with a nuclear powered metabolism. Speaking from experience, you can be eating a ton and still not be eating enough. It took me eating meal-sized portions of high calorie foods about every 2-3 hours (often breaking 5,000 in a day) PLUS a weight training regimen to crack my usual weight of 175 lbs.
The good news is that because you have a high metabolism and a handy built-in mechanism for disposing of excess fats and crap you can work dense, high calorie foods like fast food cheeseburgers into a weight gaining diet, and in fact it is advantageous to do so once in a while as long as you're meeting all your other nutritional requirements (i.e. eating Wendy's Baconators twice a day is still a terrible idea but you can get a nice convenient shot of bulking goodies from one once in a while).
Actually don't take it from me, take it from this guy. He sums up pretty much everything I'm driving at, only better because he's actually an expert.
The good news is that because you have a high metabolism and a handy built-in mechanism for disposing of excess fats and crap you can work dense, high calorie foods like fast food cheeseburgers into a weight gaining diet, and in fact it is advantageous to do so once in a while as long as you're meeting all your other nutritional requirements (i.e. eating Wendy's Baconators twice a day is still a terrible idea but you can get a nice convenient shot of bulking goodies from one once in a while).
Actually don't take it from me, take it from this guy. He sums up pretty much everything I'm driving at, only better because he's actually an expert.
I have always eaten between 3000 and 3500 caloires a day. I eat a lot and I check my calories. I may have High Metabolism because I checked on a few scales of how many calories my body should use a day and it is around 2800. So I suppose to eat between 500 to 1000 more calories to gain weight. Well I am really doing that, and have no success. I may have to go to a doctor.
Do you guys think I am as ugly as girls say I am? If so what should I at least try to do other then just gain weight. I'm sure there are other factors.
Do you guys think I am as ugly as girls say I am? If so what should I at least try to do other then just gain weight. I'm sure there are other factors.
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Do you guys think I am as ugly as girls say I am? If so what should I at least try to do other then just gain weight. I'm sure there are other factors.
Man I can't judge your looks because i'm a guy, but you look just like any other person.
Maybe one of the Female members of RMN will answer that for you.
But remember just because a few girls think your ugly doesn't mean they all do. Different girls have their different tastes.
























