I'M 20 AND I LOOK LIKE I AM 14.

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Dont beat yourself up about it so much, honestly. Why not just wait around for a girl to come to YOU? Youre only 20 man, you got alot more time to think about these kinds of things.
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I never buy my clothes at Wal-Mart. I buy my clothes at Kohls, JCPenney, Dillards, and other top marketed clothing stores.

I wanted to note that I just now came across this post and burst out laughing because of it.
i came from another forum
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I may just give up and accept that no woman is attracted to me.

Your self-pity is off the scale.
don't give up, man. I think that your problem might just be that lack of confidence. once you realize that you don't have some hideous fundamental flaw and improve your outlook on things, it should go a lot better for you. just chin up, and have more fun.
LouisCyphre
can't make a bad game if you don't finish any games
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hideous fundamental flaw


His hideous fundamental flaw is that he goes around thinking he has a hideous fundamental flaw.
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What you said is rude, idiotic, and just stereotypical. I don't look gangsta enough. I am black, and I am NOT a stereotype. I hate the gangsta look. I have no respect for ghetto people, and rape. I have no respect for that type of cultural.
Dude that is not the point at all. Women (younger than 24) like people that dress like the people on TV. Nowadays that is gangsta man. That's the main reason I told you that, and the main reason you don't have a girlfriend. If you dress like a 30 year old (not saying you do BTW) you will not likely find a girlfriend at your age. If your way of picking up girls doesn't work try to dress like people your age and get some dreadlocks too. It's not like this method would kill your manhood or something.

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i came from another forum
Just LOL.
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Dont beat yourself up about it so much, honestly. Why not just wait around for a girl to come to YOU? Youre only 20 man, you got alot more time to think about these kinds of things.
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I could wait for a girl to walk up to me. The chances are doubtful. No one walks up to a deformed person.

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I may just give up and accept that no woman is attracted to me.

Your self-pity is off the scale.


I really hate to admit this, but I do have a lot of self pity.

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don't give up, man. I think that your problem might just be that lack of confidence. once you realize that you don't have some hideous fundamental flaw and improve your outlook on things, it should go a lot better for you. just chin up, and have more fun.


At this point I should just live for as it as now, and try to have fun.
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What you said is rude, idiotic, and just stereotypical. I don't look gangsta enough. I am black, and I am NOT a stereotype. I hate the gangsta look. I have no respect for ghetto people, and rape. I have no respect for that type of cultural.
Dude that is not the point at all. Women (younger than 24) like people that dress like the people on TV. Nowadays that is gangsta man. That's the main reason I told you that, and the main reason you don't have a girlfriend. If you dress like a 30 year old (not saying you do BTW) you will not likely find a girlfriend at your age. If your way of picking up girls doesn't work try to dress like people your age and get some dreadlocks too. It's not like this method would kill your manhood or something.

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i came from another forum

Just LOL.


I don't where you are from, but gangsta is not the only style. There are a lot of guys who get girls who do not dress gangsta. My friend who does not dress gangsta easily get girls.

I'm not attracted to most black girls. I just don't find many of them physically attractive. So, I am not worried about dressing gangsta.

I honestly prefer white girls so I think I am dressing more in that area to try to attract white girls. However, I have asked out an Asian, two blacks, and a Hispanic. The race of the girl does not matter. It just that I am more attracted to white girls than any other race of girls. That's not saying I would not go out with a girl who is white. I'm just trying to be clear on this. Most of the girls on my campus are white anyways.
Don't white girls like gangsta? FYI if you don't live in USA this doesn't count. Also does your friend has low esteem issues as you do? If you answer is no to that question there is your answer.

Plus I don't know how you act on real life, for all I know you could be nerdy like Dexter from Dexter's Laboratory and even then.... Alas you look like someone that likes to control everything and when you can't you get mopey. Just stop caring about what you think the world thinks of you. Grow some balls and stop over-thinking everything and just act. If you fail you move on. If society thinks you looks worse than the shit below my shoe just don't care and keep moving. If 99 girls turned you down, do not feel mopey for it, just feel happy for the one that didn't.
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What you said is rude, idiotic, and just stereotypical. I don't look gangsta enough. I am black, and I am NOT a stereotype. I hate the gangsta look. I have no respect for ghetto people, and rape. I have no respect for that type of cultural.
Dude that is not the point at all. Women (younger than 24) like people that dress like the people on TV. Nowadays that is gangsta man. That's the main reason I told you that, and the main reason you don't have a girlfriend. If you dress like a 30 year old (not saying you do BTW) you will not likely find a girlfriend at your age. If your way of picking up girls doesn't work try to dress like people your age and get some dreadlocks too. It's not like this method would kill your manhood or something.

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i came from another forum

Just LOL.
I don't where you are from, but gangsta is not the only style. There are a lot of guys who get girls who do not dress gangsta. My friend who does not dress gangsta easily get girls.

I'm not attracted to most black girls. I just don't find many of them physically attractive. So, I am not worried about dressing gangsta.[/b[

I honestly prefer white girls so I think I am dressing more in that area to try to attract white girls. However, I have asked out an Asian, two blacks, and a Hispanic. The race of the girl does not matter. It just that I am more attracted to white girls than any other race of girls. That's not saying I would not go out with a girl who is white. I'm just trying to be clear on this. Most of the girls on my campus are white anyways.


Fuuuuuu- this topic is stupid, why is... UGHHH STOP BU...WHAT IS... Kjda'glskjagwedkolghwghwe; BRAIN DAMAGE.
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What you said is rude, idiotic, and just stereotypical. I don't look gangsta enough. I am black, and I am NOT a stereotype. I hate the gangsta look. I have no respect for ghetto people, and rape. I have no respect for that type of cultural.
Dude that is not the point at all. Women (younger than 24) like people that dress like the people on TV. Nowadays that is gangsta man. That's the main reason I told you that, and the main reason you don't have a girlfriend. If you dress like a 30 year old (not saying you do BTW) you will not likely find a girlfriend at your age. If your way of picking up girls doesn't work try to dress like people your age and get some dreadlocks too. It's not like this method would kill your manhood or something.

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i came from another forum
Just LOL.
I don't where you are from, but gangsta is not the only style. There are a lot of guys who get girls who do not dress gangsta. My friend who does not dress gangsta easily get girls.

I'm not attracted to most black girls. I just don't find many of them physically attractive. So, I am not worried about dressing gangsta.[/b[

I honestly prefer white girls so I think I am dressing more in that area to try to attract white girls. However, I have asked out an Asian, two blacks, and a Hispanic. The race of the girl does not matter. It just that I am more attracted to white girls than any other race of girls. That's not saying I would not go out with a girl who is white. I'm just trying to be clear on this. Most of the girls on my campus are white anyways.
Fuuuuuu- this topic is stupid, why is... UGHHH STOP BU...WHAT IS... Kjda'glskjagwedkolghwghwe; BRAIN DAMAGE.
Craawwling in my skinnnn, these wounds they will not heal.....
you guys are the worst at destroying topics
And you're so good at destroying them? Prove it!
tardis
is it too late for ironhide facepalm
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BRAIN DAMAGE.




this thread is now about pink floyd.
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Don't white girls like gangsta? FYI if you don't live in USA this doesn't count. Also does your friend has low esteem issues as you do? If you answer is no to that question there is your answer.

Plus I don't know how you act on real life, for all I know you could be nerdy like Dexter from Dexter's Laboratory and even then.... Alas you look like someone that likes to control everything and when you can't you get mopey. Just stop caring about what you think the world thinks of you. Grow some balls and stop over-thinking everything and just act. If you fail you move on. If society thinks you looks worse than the shit below my shoe just don't care and keep moving. If 99 girls turned you down, do not feel mopey for it, just feel happy for the one that didn't.


My friend does not have any esteem issues. He is not close to being gangsta and girls run towards him wildly. Hell he is not the best dresser. He wears clothes that are rocker style. He is not in a band by the way. He gets a lot of hot girls.

I have seen plenty of guys who are not gangsta get girls.

How can someone look like they like to control everything and is mopey?
You said you don't want people to be kind, but be honest, so here we go.

I'm going to get a little personal. Once I had something that is known in Japan as a complex. I wasn't Mr. Cool in the early days of high school, and because of that I reflected how people treated me, I wasn't the most attractive to girls. Whenever I went to parties with people from other high schools, the girls initially treated me normal, but I never really knew how to go from there, and so I slipped into the only role I knew- the guy girls find weird- and then those girls also thought I was weird. My personality made people think I acted and looked weird. It sucked.

You sir, as easy to see from all people in this topic, do not act normal, and have a massive complex when it comes to ladies. You blame it on external things like your ears. Maybe girls blame it on your ears to, but based on your personality on this forum, I will say with confidence that that is not it. When people in this topic see your complex, they all did different things. Some tried to help you in easy to do physical ways (good on them, physical flaws are a lot more damning when there's no good personality). Some tried to get deeper into the issue. Some were so bewildered that they could only laugh and make fun of you for being so.... weird. Some people some other forums even came to be a dick because the behavior was so out of the norm (they thought this justified being a dick, fucking trolls, eh?). You have an issue with your personality. You've ignored it every time I said it. You have a complex about girls. It is something that can be fixed, but you have to fundamentally change the way you think. If you don't see it, fine, but then think why so many people are making fun of you and treating you strangely?
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And you're so good at destroying them? Prove it!

historical evidence will you keep up
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You said you don't want people to be kind, but be honest, so here we go.

I'm going to get a little personal. Once I had something that is known in Japan as a complex. I wasn't Mr. Cool in the early days of high school, and because of that I reflected how people treated me, I wasn't the most attractive to girls. Whenever I went to parties with people from other high schools, the girls initially treated me normal, but I never really knew how to go from there, and so I slipped into the only role I knew- the guy girls find weird- and then those girls also thought I was weird. My personality made people think I acted and looked weird. It sucked.

You sir, as easy to see from all people in this topic, do not act normal, and have a massive complex when it comes to ladies. You blame it on external things like your ears. Maybe girls blame it on your ears to, but based on your personality on this forum, I will say with confidence that that is not it. When people in this topic see your complex, they all did different things. Some tried to help you in easy to do physical ways (good on them, physical flaws are a lot more damning when there's no good personality). Some tried to get deeper into the issue. Some were so bewildered that they could only laugh and make fun of you for being so.... weird. Some people some other forums even came to be a dick because the behavior was so out of the norm (they thought this justified being a dick, fucking trolls, eh?). You have an issue with your personality. You've ignored it every time I said it. You have a complex about girls. It is something that can be fixed, but you have to fundamentally change the way you think. If you don't see it, fine, but then think why so many people are making fun of you and treating you strangely?

How can you say don't have a good personality without trying to get know me more other than just my problem with girls?

I don't think I am weird. What is so weird about me? People in the real world don't treat me like a weird person. In high school I was kinda popular. I had a lot of friends. I did not have any enemies.
I am just not a stereotype black guy. I dislike anything that is ghetto. I enjoy basketball, football, professional wrestling, and bowling. Sometimes I play basketball and bowling with my friends. Unlike most guys I actually like shopping because I can get myself new clothes, video games, dvds, and anything that I want.

I do admit I do blame my problem not getting girls on my looks. I actually do only hear negative comments about my looks from girls. Some girls do say bad things about my ears in public, and I never say anything to do them, I try to be the bigger man. All of my life every girl has said that I am ugly. I am not expecting every girl to find me attractive. I would like some girls to find me attractive, but they don't. I asked girls what is wrong with me. They told me that there is nothing wrong with who I am, but I am physically unattractive so that is why they won't date me.
Ok. Then you only act really weird on this forum. Maybe in the real world you're a complete different person.

But, listing off your hobbies saying nothing about how you act. Again, it's like being cool is a math equation. It's not. A person can like X, Y and Z and dress like A and still not be cool or get girls, even if another person that likes X, Y and Z and dresses like A is cool and gets girls. You can only prove you're not weird by how you present yourself and act in situations. On this forum, you're not doing a very good job of proving it. Maybe you're different in the real world, but all I can judge is your many posts in this thread.

But one can only say the same thing so many times, so you know what my opinion is, do with it what you must. I wish you luck with growing up.