ANCIENT_DOOM'S PROFILE

I have just started using RPGMaker VX, and i came across a problem in the first few minutes. I want the game to start and have an event in the first few seconds.

(you lose ability to control the character.)
basically someone is telling you to get out of the vehicle.
waiting.....
they tell ya again.
waiting...
person appears at location.
he is mad and tells ya to wake up.
person walks to ya.
person kicks ya.
you respond.
person walks back to door.
person disappears.
(you regain ability to control yourself.)
end of event.

i tried to make something like this. but it ended up starting within 1 sec of the game, and on a never ending loop, and you never actually lost control of the guy. and basically i ran into all sorts of problems.

What i basically want to know is: is there a way to start a set of events when the trigger is time? also, how do i end an event, and how do i cause an event where someone appears at a location?