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Working a job you hate is like being married to someone you despise. Life is too short, leave and get away. There's something better.
InfectionFiles- 03/02/2017 12:04 AM
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*chuckle* I see both.
Searching for better opportunities makes the working conditions that do exist and are accepted in many places no better. And yup, it's not easy and it just isn't a thing you can just decide or change on a whim.
It is just for the sanity of an inidividual to keep the spirits high and the eye looking for opportunity. Because in face of such things, valuing and encouraging the power you do have is important.
That's how I see it : )
(and complaining is fine, it just means you care!)
Also, *hugs Infectionfiles*
Life's just full of all kinds of things, ain't it?
*hugs* Thank you :) And I'll be okay. It's the decisions and choices in life that you have to make that can define what happens next. And I think I'm choosing right for myself and health.
So yes to everything you said :D
The same applies, imho. Finding out what is important to you and valueable and what you can n wish to do.
Searching for ways to see you keep the kids clothed n happy and able to see you around. But also getting the sanity you need. (it's not like kids wouldn't notice or would be perfectly fine with things being awry anyway)
Be that in finding ways to get along and work towards better understanding with said "work", maybe stepping back for a bit to contemplate and find yourself in a better state to do so, or finding that that doesn't work and needs to change *shrug*
It's a tough road to face, for sure.
As someone who comes from a divorced family, knows people who have done so happily (mine not as much but it's been for the better still), knowing people who later remarried someone else, people who are in the process of splitting things up *shrug*
It is one way of doing things. Or rather, it already offers a myriad of stuff n roads.
I also know peeps who stayed together staying distant, .. I really need to ask about the hardships of those who worked things out and stayed happy. It's such a rare thing to ask actually but it'd be so interesting. There's all kinds of things, but none of that says much about what of it applies to you.
Hang in there, yeah? Get yourself all the support you need to feel this out and see what you can, and actually wish to do.
@InfectionFiles Rooting for you! Glad you feel so good about it : ) That's what makes it right *chuckle*
Searching for ways to see you keep the kids clothed n happy and able to see you around. But also getting the sanity you need. (it's not like kids wouldn't notice or would be perfectly fine with things being awry anyway)
Be that in finding ways to get along and work towards better understanding with said "work", maybe stepping back for a bit to contemplate and find yourself in a better state to do so, or finding that that doesn't work and needs to change *shrug*
It's a tough road to face, for sure.
As someone who comes from a divorced family, knows people who have done so happily (mine not as much but it's been for the better still), knowing people who later remarried someone else, people who are in the process of splitting things up *shrug*
It is one way of doing things. Or rather, it already offers a myriad of stuff n roads.
I also know peeps who stayed together staying distant, .. I really need to ask about the hardships of those who worked things out and stayed happy. It's such a rare thing to ask actually but it'd be so interesting. There's all kinds of things, but none of that says much about what of it applies to you.
Hang in there, yeah? Get yourself all the support you need to feel this out and see what you can, and actually wish to do.
@InfectionFiles Rooting for you! Glad you feel so good about it : ) That's what makes it right *chuckle*
