RYUK'S PROFILE

author=calunio
Ok, simple answers for you:

I recommend RMVX. It's not harder to use then 2k3 or XP, but it gives you more options as you progress in your gamemaking skills, so there's no point starting with one engine and moving to another.

2k3 has more resources available, though.

Best way to start would be
1 - Playing a couple of games recommended by the community, just so you know what you're messing with;
2 - Opening the editor and screwing around with the commands and options;
3 - Making a SMALL project. Very small.
This will give you enough experience to think of bigger projects.

As for scripts, they are everywhere. You just have to google for them. You can also request them here.