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Almost ten months and still going strong.
author=kayzorkross link=topic=2473.msg56247#msg56247 date=1231986754
Almost ten months and still going strong.

Congrats : ) I remember the honeymoon period (le sigh)...

It starts getting rockier at circa 24 months, usually.
Some girls just can't get over the fact that I carry around a salt lick, which i lick every few minutes for salt. What's the deal, people are so judgmental.
Masamune
A guy walks into a bar and his alcoholism is destroying his family.
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author=Blitzen link=topic=2473.msg56318#msg56318 date=1232045812
Some girls just can't get over the fact that I carry around a salt lick, which i lick every few minutes for salt. What's the deal, people are so judgmental.

Hahah, what? That's actually pretty funny if you're being serious.
lol a salt lick? why would you EVER want to do that?!
Oh, Blitzen!

Here's one for you guys; how do you feel about a girl that's attractive and that she knows that she's sexy? Is that a turnoff or intimidating to some of you?
I assume one must walk the fine line between constantly saying "Ooh, I'm so fat, I'm so ugly," and saying "I'm so much better looking than you, you are a waste of my time."

Modesty + confidence is attractive. Anything on either end of the spectrum is ugly.
I finally join this topic. I won't explain my past right now, but I will say what's going on in the present.

There's this girl I work with who I think is cute. The problem is, that's about all I know and that she sometimes is really energetic. But besides that, I know nothing about her.

My personal history with girls isn't to extensive, I've only had...probably...6 previous girlfriends (just a rough guess). Save for one of those relationships, they've never lasted more than a couple of months.

In high school and below, I was never good at talking to girls. I can easily talk to girls that are my friends or that I don't like, but with the ones I DO like, I tend to falter when trying to find words to say to them, or even confront them for that matter. I don't know, that's just the way I am. But I digress. Now that I've moved out of my parents house, am going to college, and am living on my own, I've become less timid and made better attempts at communicating with girls. So, about this girl I work with...

I've talked to her on a few occasions and decided, "hell, I'll go ahead and ask if she'd like to go out sometime", so, I did, but...heh...I did it somewhat nervously of course. She said yes (hoo-fuckin'-ray!). Her work schedule sucks, so as things stand right now, we haven't set a particular day to go out yet. Just a few hours ago I asked her if she had gotten her upcoming schedule. She said she her boss had made it, but she hadn't checked it yet. So, the very last things she's said to me so far "I'll let you know." I nervously replied, "Okay" a few times and went about my business. I surely hope we get to go out on a date soon... :)
author=aprilschild link=topic=2473.msg57701#msg57701 date=1232674024
I assume one must walk the fine line between constantly saying "Ooh, I'm so fat, I'm so ugly," and saying "I'm so much better looking than you, you are a waste of my time."

Modesty + confidence is attractive. Anything on either end of the spectrum is ugly.

Yeah, that's true, but it doesn't really address what I mean! There's a difference between confidence ("I'm a great person and really worthwhile!") and knowing you're really attractive ("I am consciously aware I am really attractive.").
author=Feldschlacht IV link=topic=2473.msg57681#msg57681 date=1232671959
Here's one for you guys; how do you feel about a girl that's attractive and that she knows that she's sexy? Is that a turnoff or intimidating to some of you?

It's fine. I don't know why our culture is so down on people who are confident in themselves and how they look. In pretty much every case an attractive person has to put effort into how they look (fashion, fitness, hygiene), and that person has every right to be proud of their work.
The line between vanity and self-confidence is thinner than Paris Hilton's knobby legs.
author=Feldschlacht IV link=topic=2473.msg57681#msg57681 date=1232671959
Oh, Blitzen!

Here's one for you guys; how do you feel about a girl that's attractive and that she knows that she's sexy? Is that a turnoff or intimidating to some of you?

Not at all. It only becomes a turnoff if that's all she ever talks about (in which I will kindly bring her back to reality).

Then again, I just find bitchy girls incredibly sexy altogether. I can't get enough of 'em.
author=Feldschlacht IV link=topic=2473.msg58418#msg58418 date=1232987608
author=aprilschild link=topic=2473.msg57701#msg57701 date=1232674024
I assume one must walk the fine line between constantly saying "Ooh, I'm so fat, I'm so ugly," and saying "I'm so much better looking than you, you are a waste of my time."

Modesty + confidence is attractive. Anything on either end of the spectrum is ugly.

Yeah, that's true, but it doesn't really address what I mean! There's a difference between confidence ("I'm a great person and really worthwhile!") and knowing you're really attractive ("I am consciously aware I am really attractive.").

NOT FOR WOMEN, lol : D

This is only a half-joke. A lot of times, less good-looking girls are very self-conscious about it and really are not confident in themselves as PEOPLE, because of how they look. If you ask a girl "what do you want to change about yourself," she won't say "my temper," she'll say "my thighs." OBVIOUSLY THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS TO THIS, but generally they are just that, exceptions, and not the rule.

However, there are those butt-ugly girls who think they're hot stuff (I've been a roommate with one). Sometimes, despite their butt-ugliness, it is this constant assertion and attitude that they're the sexiest thing on the planet that gets them laid.

However, the more confident in her looks an average girl is (and thus, the more effort she puts into it ), I guess the more physically attractive she will be.

But I personally like the kind of girl who doesn't know she's beautiful... the kind of girl who's lovely in an earthy kind of way, not fake or glamorous, but naturally well-put-together.
yeah, for some reason i find modesty attractive. it's much easier for me to give compliments to someone who is very self-conscious. they also feel more meaningful too.

"what do you mean?? you're VERY attractive"

rather than

"yeah yeah, you're hot, we know"


of course this will have its negatives when you're with someone who is very modest. it kind of feels good to make them feel better about themself though.
author=Feldschlacht IV link=topic=2473.msg57681#msg57681 date=1232671959
Here's one for you guys; how do you feel about a girl that's attractive and that she knows that she's sexy? Is that a turnoff or intimidating to some of you?

I haven't met much girls like this, mainly because I don't have a lot of them as friends, but the ones I do have are not like this.

I suppose I'd say it would be a turnoff, though.
author=Feldschlacht IV link=topic=2473.msg57681#msg57681 date=1232671959
Oh, Blitzen!

Here's one for you guys; how do you feel about a girl that's attractive and that she knows that she's sexy? Is that a turnoff or intimidating to some of you?

You know what I hate? When the opposite happens.. when a girl isn't attractive but thinks she is dead sexy! And then they do dress and behave ways that really aren't flattering to themselves and ughghghghgg...

Not saying there is anything wrong with unattractive people, especially of the female variety. Just you gotta know how to rock what you got and if you try to be someone you're really not.. well it just doesn't look good!

Edit: Wow this was already mentioned by aprilschild. I feel like a doofus. :D
I know this is probably an old topic so I hope I'm not breaking any rules or anything! I actaully posted this on GW and got made fun of a little but mostly I got good advice.

This all happened last year, I met this girl from college I had a feeling she liked me and I'm really confused. I met her in my friend's maths class one day, when I could of went home but I asked his teacher if I could join and the teacher said "yes" thing is I never knew she was in there and sometimes when I would be in the Quad(AKA playground) relaxing with my friends I would catch her looking at me even though I didn't know her AT ALL and when I looked at her she would turn her head away real fast.

So back to the story, I'm in my friend's class doing some work and she is sitting in front of me with her back facing me, she turns around and starts talking to me asking me my name, and do I know this guy called "BA"(weird name I know) and I said I don't, few days later I meet the guy from my friend. After this, a few days or weeks later I see her and I still catch her looking at me and sometimes when I walk past her she smiles at me and even tease me calling me "BA" cause apparently we look-alike or maybe it's cause we're both chinese, well whatever.

I got her msn now and I talked to her a bit, a few weeks later she starts a conversation with me saying hi and how am I, later I asked her if she liked me and she said No, :S (confused icon), LOL, LMFAO and RETARDD, :$( embarrassed icon).

I never knew she had a boyfriend last year when she was giving me these signs, till recently and they broke up about 6 months ago approx. I'm unsure whether she likes me still or SHE used to like me.

End of story I'm over this now but I'd still like to know what you guys make of this?
You know, sometimes girls just want to be your friend.
She said 'no :S lol lmfao retardd :S' all in one sentence? Sounds suspicious to me.
Detective boobledeeboo thinks she likes you. Or used to like you at least, she was giving off telltale signs.
She probably said no(and then some) in case you were about to say you don't like her back.

Or maybe she did just want to be friends and you were reading too much into it..