MY GIRLFRIEND IS HAVING AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR

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accountants aren't boring my mother is an accountant
how dare you bring my mother into this

Dude, Tardis, My dad is an accountant! He... > >

Yeah, I guess I'd say he's kinda boring...

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accountants aren't boring my mother is an accountant







how dare you bring my mother into this

My step-mother is an accountant, and she's awesome. She likes to put doll parts in potted plants so that it looks like zombies are crawling out. Also, she has butchered a deer on my dining room table before. Her favorite holiday is Halloween, because she can cut a hole in the center of an old table and have one of my decorated friend's heads be there, under a platter-cover-thing, so that little kids have nightmares.

Dude I have always thought you were pretty chill even though my interaction with you has been 100% reading internet posts, but if you are not XTREME enough to satisfy her insatiable teenage lust for life in the fast lane then frak her, man. I don't think relationships should be about that sort of "interest-based" thing anyway. If I like someone then it's probably 99% intrigue with the way she thinks and her persona rather than how exciting they are/cool stuff they do. Meaning, if all she did was sit in a windowless room all day I'd still be into her just because of who she is. I don't know, that is just what I feel a "true" love is. Not, does this guy play guitar y/n omg that is so cool i am excited let's date

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Ciel's got a good point. Maybe the problem is you, maybe you're too mature for her. If you dump her you should look for someone with the same maturity as you.

hmm

This happened to me.

Good advice he can ignore you.

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I don't have any advice for you, Abley, but I bet my friend Dexter Morgan does...


-nods knowingly-

I agree with this in every way.

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Are you certain she's cheating, or are you intimidated at the thought of this guy* getting along with your girl?

*who you may or may not be painting in your head as the stereotypical leather jacket harley davidson bad boy that every nerd with a woman relentlessly fears

I like the tiny print, lol. Seriously, I have ZERO experience with affairs, because typically my relationships have been like this song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ek1UlNWoRCw
My family moves about due to my mom being a teacher, and my dad being a priest. So I've never really felt connected enough to anyone to really be in a relationship (plus I'm kinda introverted and submissive, and would rather she ask). Typically, if the girl likes someone else, I'm more or less a non-issue, and they just tell me they've got a bf.

In my experience from being one girl's "friend" (despite my wishes to be more) while she was bouncing from guy to guy, and kinda stringing me along, rebound/affair relationships normally don't work unless there's something real there. That doesn't mean she'll come back to you though. You have two choices: you can choose to keep loving her and be patient, and not care that it happened; or you can decide you want her happiness, even if you think this guy is a totally wrong match for her. The other options (like getting mad or doing something to "show you care") pretty much only work in movies. Typically women just write a list in their heads about your bad qualities (so as to convince THEMSELVES that leaving you was the right option), and adding jealous, angry, or possessive to the list won't help your case. Tell her that you still love her, but realize that she might love someone else.

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You know what, feel lucky. My girlfriend has not talked to me in over a week and I'm starting to go crazy wondering what's going on.

closed fist, you know what to do.

Here is my advice. If you two were truly happy with one another this would not be happening. When a person is no longer happy with someone then it is time to move on. You are young. Go out and experience the world. Meet new women. Find what makes you happy.