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post=115916
Nothing we've said you want to take into account, it seems like you just want a quick fix.

post=115913
I only told you that they are not attracted to me. Saying someone is not attracted to me is not weird. It is a simple statement.

It IS wierd, you can't just say 'all of the girls in the world aren't attracted to me' because that just DOESN'T happen. Ever.
You are way too bothered about the entire thing if you ask me.
Stop worrying about it, getting a girl isn't the be all and end all, we're not some kind of saviors. It should be something that just happens.
(i feel sort of silly for constantly bumping this thread up)

I see what you mean by saying "every girl is not attracted to me". I should not have generalized it. I've been rejected between 15 to 20 times in a row. However, that does not include a lot of girls who said that I am ugly. A lot of girls have said that I am ugly. Some of the worst looking girls in school would not date me. A girl has never liked me before. Girls will say I'll be your friend, but nothing more. That's why I feel as if no one is attracted to me.

I'm not sure what I am doing wrong. I am not being the "nice guy". I don't agree with everything a girl says. Hell I love to debate with people. I make my own decisions. I am not afraid to talk about sex with my girl friends. I have made a lot of friends with both guys and girls. Creeps don't make friends.

I am bothered by this a lot. I see most of my friends getting into healthy relationships. I feel left out. Sometimes my friends ask me to hang out with them, but I don't want to be the three party. It feels awkward to see two people being lovely and I am the guy feeling "why did I come to watch a date?".

The more I see it the more I feel that my confidence level is the problem. By only being rejected I let it get in my head. I have never been the same. This started after two girls lied that they liked me, and my confidence has never been the same.

post=115912
I thought you were a troll fucking with us (which would've been awesome), so I thought I'd google your username and it just turns out you're about many many many rpgmaker message boards.

I think it's a bit weird to pour your heart to a group of strangers on the internet you've never met before, like the ones here at rpgmaker.net. I have no idea how many other groups of strangers you did the same thing to, or if they were all your internet buds, but it's a bit weird.

The complete lack of any sense of humour or getting when people are joking seems a bit weird.

The robotic responses of only looking at the one goal of getting a girlfriend and almost not being able to socialize or be personable on this forum is a bit weird.

How you talk about girls (as booble has pointed out) on this forum is really weird.

Shall I go on? Again, not trying to offend, you said you wanted help. I hope in the end you're fucking with us all, because that would be funny, and I would've been played.

Asking for advice is not weird. I actually know some of these guys from RRR and other sites.

I do socialize on this forum just not as much as other forums. However, I talk to these same people on other forums. I have made posts in other topics since the first day I joined this site MONTHS AGO. All because you don't see my other posts in other topics does not mean this is my only focus in this community.

How I am lacking a sense of humor? I noticed when people are joking. I only responded to people offering advice.

What is weird about how I talk about girls? All I said is they tell me that I am too ugly. I am just telling you what they tell me.

I'm honestly don't think you are truly reading my posts like you say. Like I said I never responded to any jokes. That does not mean I disliked the jokes. I have my laughs. However, I only responded to the serious posts for I would spam my own topic. I never described girls in details. I only told you that they are not attracted to me. Saying someone is not attracted to me is not weird. It is a simple statement.

post=115846
This topic is fucking epic.


I laughed so freaking hard when I saw this. Deacon are you from the middle ages? lmao.

This is Deacon Batista

post=115835
From that post it seems like you do fit the role of the funny guy. The funny guy can make a great friend, but girls can find it squirmish to be with the funny guy. I had a similar problem in high school. I could listen and make everyone laugh, but I couldn't go beyond that, and so I came off strange or weird when I tried. Also, it sounds like you have little experience, so when you switch to "I want to be with you mode", everyone can smell your awkwardness and it comes off creepy. Again, I'm speaking from personal experience, and not looking down.

Also, if you're a funny guy, then maybe all these girls are just being lighthearted joking with you when they're calling you ugly? They feel comfortable talking to you and comfortable joking with you and no interest in being with you because you're "that guy" and so say "fuck no you're ugly man!"

Let's end with a quote from Blink 182: "It's so damn hard to keep playing the role of the fool week after week."

Insightful words boys.


HAVE YOU TRIED THIS:

Talking to a girl who has no connection to any of your circle of friends or people you know. She doesn't know you as the funny guy, or the inexperienced guy, or the desperate guy, but just another dude who seems kind of cool.

edit: I ask this because while my problem got a lot better in high school, it completely went away in university. Girls didn't have any preconceptions or treat me as a goofy funny person, and I had realized at that point that I'm reciprocating the role I had, and it wasn't really me. With girls at college, I could be me, and they found me attractive.

I'm not desperate. If I was then I would be asking out any girl.

When these girls are saying I'm ugly, they are not joking. They are pretty serious. I know a joking tone when I hear one.

I have asked out girls who are not in my circle of friends with no success. Girls are not attracted towards me in college. Just like you I act like myself. I have no problems making friends, but when it comes to having a girlfriend then I have problems.

I don't if I said this already. My coworkers said that my humor is a dry humor, and most young girls don't like dry humor.

post=115832
if a girl says 'ugh you are too ugly to date' maybe you are better off without someone like that?

True.

My coworkers know about my problem. They have tried to help me. The basically gave the same advice that many of you guys have given me. I already said that I am trying out the advice. I work on campus.

My boss told me that one of m coworkers said she would date me. However, I don't want to date a coworker. There is the potential to bring in a lot of drama at work, and I don't want to do that. This girl is a good friend of mines, and I don't want to ruin a good friendship.