RATED-RKOFRANKLIN'S PROFILE

post=115816
You know, you can grow a beard and change what you wear, but that is not going to change anything, not with your attitude. You're blaming everything on outside looks, i don't know why, probably because that's an easier, less painful thing to deal with than your personality.

From what you've said, it sounds like you haven't yet found a girl you genuinely care for and respect, you're just lumping them all together. You seem to blindly ask out any girl to deal with your own insecurities(which by the way, probably comes across as really creepy). The normal thing would be to get to know someone as a friend first and take it from there. Your entire reasons for asking out girls just seems wierd to me.
Instead of completely disregarding the fact that your personality might be at fault, i suggest you think about it a lot more. Stop being so self-pitiful and defeatist, and it sounds corny but think about why you're even asking out these girls in the first place, do you actually want a girlfriend or do you just want to solve your own security issues?
Wait until you find someone you genuinely care about and then your attitude might change.

How I am blindly asking out girls? I do get to know the girls and become friends with them. I never ask out anyone who I don't know. Every girl I ever asked I am friends with her. I already stated this here, http://rpgmaker.net/forums/topics/5428/?p=4

I'm not asking out girls to solve my own insecurities of my physical appearance. I'm trying to solve that problem myself by dressing better to add confidence. I got some new glasses and shades to look better on be than those huge ass glasses I use to have.

I admit I do have insecurities of my appearance. However, I think anyone would if everyone of the opposite has always said you are the worst looking guy to get. Like I said I don't expect every girl to fall heads over hill for me. I'm not being rejected because of my personality. These girls told me that I am too ugly on the outside to date.

I know I want a girlfriend. When I like girl, I just want to start something special with her. I am not thinking about her solving my problems. I'm thinking about starting a healthy relationship with someone who means something to me.

post=115703
So yeah:

Dude that's my cousin. Not cool at all!

post=115754
You said you don't want people to be kind, but be honest, so here we go.

I'm going to get a little personal. Once I had something that is known in Japan as a complex. I wasn't Mr. Cool in the early days of high school, and because of that I reflected how people treated me, I wasn't the most attractive to girls. Whenever I went to parties with people from other high schools, the girls initially treated me normal, but I never really knew how to go from there, and so I slipped into the only role I knew- the guy girls find weird- and then those girls also thought I was weird. My personality made people think I acted and looked weird. It sucked.

You sir, as easy to see from all people in this topic, do not act normal, and have a massive complex when it comes to ladies. You blame it on external things like your ears. Maybe girls blame it on your ears to, but based on your personality on this forum, I will say with confidence that that is not it. When people in this topic see your complex, they all did different things. Some tried to help you in easy to do physical ways (good on them, physical flaws are a lot more damning when there's no good personality). Some tried to get deeper into the issue. Some were so bewildered that they could only laugh and make fun of you for being so.... weird. Some people some other forums even came to be a dick because the behavior was so out of the norm (they thought this justified being a dick, fucking trolls, eh?). You have an issue with your personality. You've ignored it every time I said it. You have a complex about girls. It is something that can be fixed, but you have to fundamentally change the way you think. If you don't see it, fine, but then think why so many people are making fun of you and treating you strangely?

How can you say don't have a good personality without trying to get know me more other than just my problem with girls?

I don't think I am weird. What is so weird about me? People in the real world don't treat me like a weird person. In high school I was kinda popular. I had a lot of friends. I did not have any enemies.
I am just not a stereotype black guy. I dislike anything that is ghetto. I enjoy basketball, football, professional wrestling, and bowling. Sometimes I play basketball and bowling with my friends. Unlike most guys I actually like shopping because I can get myself new clothes, video games, dvds, and anything that I want.

I do admit I do blame my problem not getting girls on my looks. I actually do only hear negative comments about my looks from girls. Some girls do say bad things about my ears in public, and I never say anything to do them, I try to be the bigger man. All of my life every girl has said that I am ugly. I am not expecting every girl to find me attractive. I would like some girls to find me attractive, but they don't. I asked girls what is wrong with me. They told me that there is nothing wrong with who I am, but I am physically unattractive so that is why they won't date me.

post=115740

post=115358
What you said is rude, idiotic, and just stereotypical. I don't look gangsta enough. I am black, and I am NOT a stereotype. I hate the gangsta look. I have no respect for ghetto people, and rape. I have no respect for that type of cultural.

Dude that is not the point at all. Women (younger than 24) like people that dress like the people on TV. Nowadays that is gangsta man. That's the main reason I told you that, and the main reason you don't have a girlfriend. If you dress like a 30 year old (not saying you do BTW) you will not likely find a girlfriend at your age. If your way of picking up girls doesn't work try to dress like people your age and get some dreadlocks too. It's not like this method would kill your manhood or something.

post=115724
i came from another forum

Just LOL.

I don't where you are from, but gangsta is not the only style. There are a lot of guys who get girls who do not dress gangsta. My friend who does not dress gangsta easily get girls.

I'm not attracted to most black girls. I just don't find many of them physically attractive. So, I am not worried about dressing gangsta.

I honestly prefer white girls so I think I am dressing more in that area to try to attract white girls. However, I have asked out an Asian, two blacks, and a Hispanic. The race of the girl does not matter. It just that I am more attracted to white girls than any other race of girls. That's not saying I would not go out with a girl who is white. I'm just trying to be clear on this. Most of the girls on my campus are white anyways.

You're not a native speaker, but yet you are trying to tell someone how to speak English. I am a native speaker. I'm not very good at writing dialogue. This is something I need to improve on.