IVE LOST EVERYTHING TO A HOUSE FIRE, LINK TO GOFUNDME

Okay look. Bulma is not specifically wrong, the "I'm sorry for your loss" and "you'll get through it" can get tiring. It's used over and over everyday and doesn't feel as heartfelt as it once was. I can understand what Bulma is saying, my friend on the day of the fire told me "it'll be okay", this is one of the friends I had actually expected the most support from and the way he said it I wanted to slap him... Sadly he lives in ohio. I haven't talked to him since because of how insensitive he was. So yes, I get it. I also get how people are frustrated with bulmas statement, mostly for the fact of the aggression in their post. I've looked over the thread several times and I see nothing wrong with bulmas statements beside the aggression and calling people out for being insensitive, everyone ganging up on bulma and calling them an asshole and dick is upsetting me more than their aggression if I'm being honest, to the point I'm wondering if I should have posted this at all. So stop slinging the slurs around please, even if someone is in the wrong. some people don't know what to say so I've been taking the common lines of sympathy for this reason. Sometimes there's nothing else you can say. Some people will actually mean it some people won't. Bulma, you're not a asshole and I actually appreciate the fact you stood up for me even if it was aggressive, you were just trying to help in your way. So everyone just calm, this kind of thing is what I was worried about though I had expected someone to call me an attention grabber more than anything else. I'm not trying to stick up for one side specifically I get both sides. Just stop the bickering.

Also, Bulma.. you are correct with which lizard is who and as someone who barely know you it really means a lot that you pointed them all out. Such a small thing that made me smile. Thank you, the lizards are one of the things I'm having the hardest time with considering the emotional attachment I had with them... They literally gave me a reason to wake up in the morning. They helped me deal with my depression and anxiety. They were.. my world. If my dog hadn't made it out I'd be dead or in the hospital at this point.

Thanks to everyone else who is worried about me. I appreciate the thoughts and kind words. All I ask is to stop the arguing, especially the slurs on both sides of the argument. And just to make it clear nobody is upsetting me by saying the common phrases, cuz I've done it too for lack of words. It's the thought that counts, especially if you mean it.

Also thanks to those who are helping financially and spreading the word, hopefully we'll have a house again by the end of January. Every little bit helps, if you can spare even just a dollar it'll stack up, but don't feel obligated or upset if you cannot. All the people who are helping right now will have something good happen to them in return, I believe good deeds come back to you. Thanks to everyone on this website.

Ps: Just because it's important to me, Romeo was the only male of the four and... The literal light of my life. But I miss them all so much.

paypal.me/traybug for those who can't use the GoFundMe and want to help financially.

Thanks to everyone who has supported me. The thread has been reopened because I feel the positive feedback is more important than the negative feedback.

https://froggetsinternetz.tumblr.com/post/180962780950/emergency-commissions-help-out-a-friend

To see people going the extra mile to help me really brings tears to my eyes.. thank you everyone. Frogge is even doing commissions and sending the money to me... Thank you so much.