HOW TO APPROACH A GIRL......THE CORRECT WAY. (SERIOUS TOPIC)
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Also you would probably meet with more success if you put as much effort into girls as you have into this thread.
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Also you would probably meet with more success if you put as much effort into girls as you have into this thread.
I already have one.
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Tell her you listen to Death Cab. Bitches love Death Cab.
Sing her "I will follow you into the dark" and it'll be instawin.
Unless you fail at it and miss a line. Then they'll rise up and kill you.
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Sing her "I will follow you into the dark" and it'll be instawin.
Unless you fail at it and miss a line. Then they'll rise up and kill you.
1) instawin is not guaranteed- i've had more luck with blackbird in terms of being the 'sensitive guitar guy.'
2) second part is completely true.
3) fuck the guitar i'm goin back to my drums
There are probably ways of approaching every one of those people too. I can't see what's ridiculous about it!
(u sayin this just cuz you a girl?)
Really? It's ridiculous because these are things you learn from experience. A topic can't teach you to get an idea of people's character/approachability by looking at them, to asses a situation, to reply accordingly and it definitely can't give you the high self-esteem you feel when you've successfully woo-ed your object of affection. And anyway, most of what is written here is common sense repeated over and over again. Plus this topic was turning out to be an analysis of the combined stereotypical traits of girls.
And anyway, I know I don't have the guts to approach the people I like even though I know how to. So topics can't give you guts either.
I'm not saying a topic on RMN alone can teach anyone anything by itself. I'm just saying that some of the general ideas given "allow the girl to talk about herself", "don't be intimidated", "don't be too nice" are, like you said, common sense stuff. If you're too chickenshit from jump street to talk to someone you like, an internet topic won't help you. But on the other hand, I'd wager that from the number of people who have absolutely no luck with the opposite sex and have no idea why, common sense advice won't exactly hurt as a refresher either.
And then again sometimes topics like this are to just shoot the breeze and have fun insights like uh has proven to have.
And then again sometimes topics like this are to just shoot the breeze and have fun insights like uh has proven to have.
post=106616There are probably ways of approaching every one of those people too. I can't see what's ridiculous about it!Really? It's ridiculous because these are things you learn from experience. A topic can't teach you to get an idea of people's character/approachability by looking at them, to asses a situation, to reply accordingly and it definitely can't give you the high self-esteem you feel when you've successfully woo-ed your object of affection. And anyway, most of what is written here is common sense repeated over and over again. Plus this topic was turning out to be an analysis of the combined stereotypical traits of girls.
(u sayin this just cuz you a girl?)
And anyway, I know I don't have the guts to approach the people I like even though I know how to. So topics can't give you guts either.
Exactly, I can't help in the guts department.
You just have to swallow your fear and go for it.
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You know, you're kind of missing the point but yeah, that's true.
Oh, now I read what you said fully..
This topic is not common sense for everybody, not every guy knows this about girls.
Those are the guys i'm trying to help.
The guys that just don't understand the BASIC facts.
You don't just grow up knowing about girls, You learn it from role models.
Some guys just don't have role models and thus don't know these facts yet.
So you see, these things aren't just common sense.
And another thing Meh, don't approach a guy, it makes you look easy.
You are the prize, find some way to make the guy approach you.
In my opinion girls aren't mean't to be the chasers, they are meant to be the chased.
And when a guy does approach you Meh, try to play hard to get, it will make him want you double as much.
You are the prize, find some way to make the guy approach you.
In my opinion girls aren't mean't to be the chasers, they are meant to be the chased.
And when a guy does approach you Meh, try to play hard to get, it will make him want you double as much.
It doesn't matter who approaches who and girls can approach a guy without coming off as easy. It depends on what the chick wants, really.
Anyway, I'm not sure if you'll need the advice I'm gonna give you, but if you ever want a guy to approach you cross your legs, toy with your hair, look his way regularly and smile slightly at him if/whenever your eyes meet.
Anyway, I'm not sure if you'll need the advice I'm gonna give you, but if you ever want a guy to approach you cross your legs, toy with your hair, look his way regularly and smile slightly at him if/whenever your eyes meet.
If you want women to approach you, draw in public. On the bus or a similar place especially. It's worked for me since before I was old enough to be into girls.
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And another thing Meh, don't approach a guy, it makes you look easy.
You are the prize, find some way to make the guy approach you.
In my opinion girls aren't mean't to be the chasers, they are meant to be the chased.
Yeah I disagree with this a lot. When it comes down to it we're all the same and we all want the same thing. You seem to be putting women on a high pedestal.
post=106701post=106696Yeah I disagree with this a lot. When it comes down to it we're all the same and we all want the same thing. You seem to be putting women on a high pedestal.
And another thing Meh, don't approach a guy, it makes you look easy.
You are the prize, find some way to make the guy approach you.
In my opinion girls aren't mean't to be the chasers, they are meant to be the chased.
No i've never put women on a high pedestal. But in my opinion they are they ones that are meant to be chased.
Listen to this and listen closely.....
"How common is it to see a hot chick approach a guy?"
You hardly ever see it.
If you want an decent looking chick you're going to have approach her......thats why the term "Game" was coined.
You can forget the thought of having a hot chick approach you, it probably won't happen.
Guys try to get the girl. When a girl tries to get a guy people say "That chick is a ho."
It's an terrible double standard, but thats how it is.
Even in the bible it mentions this, what does a harlot do? It tries to talk to the guy.....























