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Females and Gaming - #1reasonwhy

iddalai
The original quote was about women not getting into programming even as a hobby.

I see no problem with my answer: "Ever thought about getting into something cool and then looked at the people doing it, realised they were assholes and ended up not getting into it?"

How does this need to be about an occupation? It's realted with the very act of programming. It was just like when I was in a sense prevented from trying Tomb Raider at the time, since the specific Tomb Raider fan base I had contact with (not to generalise) were assholes.

This is just an example, with women it's even worse, sometimes they are even driven away with insults if they even show an interest in programming, if you can't understand that then it's your problem.

Can they still google programming and try it out? Sure, but with so much negative pressure they probably won't, they won't feel any appeal to it, plus there's a lot of other activities that will seem more appealing and where they won't be insulted or expelled if they try to integrate.

You probalby have people you amiably discuss programming with, and it's probably really fun to do it, but if those people ignored you or worse, insulted you, then you may not be so fond of programming. I at least, wouldn't.

They can be directly and indirectly pushed away from programming.

Here's what you originally said again for reference:
Many times women aren't even given a chance to try out programming, so they won't even know it they like it.

The above statement suggests, in a nutshell, that women cannot program, the statement suggests that women are prohibited from opening Notepad and writing code with it. To that suggestion, I call bullshit. Women can open up Notepad at any given time and write code in it, even something as simple as <html></html> would constitute as writing code, and I see absolutely nothing that prevents women from doing this.

Really, you even admitted yourself that women can try programming:
Can they still google programming and try it out? Sure,

Your argument isn't that women can't get a chance to try programming, you're arguing that women might receive a negative image of programming after the fact, and on that regard others like Sailerius have already gone into depth with that angle and I feel reiterating what they've already said won't prove to be that constructive.

Basically, what you meant / wanted to say and how you worded your original statement didn't match up. I took what you said at face value, that "women aren't even given a chance to try out programming", and I answered that that assumption was flawed because the act of programming itself is in fact very accessible. If the result of this exchange was that I misunderstood you it really couldn't be helped given the way the original statement was worded. No hard feelings though, right? ( ̄▽ ̄)ノ

Females and Gaming - #1reasonwhy

author=iddalai
author=kentona
Can someone explain to me what is stopping females from trying programming?
Ever thought about getting into something cool and then looked at the people doing it, realised they were assholes and ended up not getting into it?

Well, that's it.
The problem with your answer is that you (and a whole bunch of other people) are completely misunderstanding what I'm saying. I'm not talking about the occupation of programming, I'm talking about the very act of programming itself and I can see nothing that would prohibit women from persuing the latter.

So again, are you just misunderstanding me (or am I misunderstanding your original query?) or is there something that seriously prohibits women from opening Notepad and writing some code? I really would like to be enlightened because this misunderstanding is starting to become repetitive and getting in the way of the discussion at hand.

Females and Gaming - #1reasonwhy

author=iddalai
I'm not trying to pull a "gotcha!", I'm proving a point: the issue of sexism is so enrooted in our society and education that you did it and didn't even noticed, because it's considered normal. I'm not saying it's your fault, you can't control it.
I'm actually going to go a step further and state that I am in fact at fault for my bad choice of words, accident or not. "Girls" refers to a specific subset of women, and in the context of this discussion that word also carries some negative connotations. While my usage of the word "girls" in that one instance was a slip of the typing fingers, I still admit that I am ultimately at fault for my bad choice of words and I will apologize and correct myself for it as I feel it is my duty as a mature person to do so.

Personally, I believe the first step in coming to an agreement in any debate is to admit to one's shortfalls, if there are any, and make amends where neccesary.

I'm also going to disagree with you that this is beyond my control. I dictate what I say, ultimately, and I am in full control whether to press forward my actions (whether flawed or not) or to make amends. If I'm not in control of myself, who is?

The other side is defensive because they feel they're being called the bad guys or feel attacked.
The reason why we're calling Acra out on her supposed hostility is because she is being openly hostile to others in this discussion when that hostility clearly had no merit. We do sympathize with what Acra has had to go through, let's make that part clear beforehand, but we are taking issue with her stance that she assumes anyone not in full compliance with her opinion are automatically bad guys taking part in making her day miserable.

I'd like to note that while there are many people partaking in this debate with differing opinions, as any debate would be, everybody besides Acra has done their utmost best to keep personal attacks and emotional appeals to a bare minimum, if not none at all. We've all tried our best to choose our words carefully, we've all tried our best to discuss this topic in a civil manner (a topic everyone realizes is a very sensitive issue!) and then suddenly we have someone antagonizing others out of nowhere. What's up with that? This isn't a question of Acra's gender nor her life experience, we are taking issue with the fact she effectively trolled and flamed almost everyone in an otherwise civil discussion.

In short, what we've all been trying to say is that we simply can't have a constructive discussion if anyone is going to start flinging mud at the other participants. Mud slinging will only raise animosity towards the mud slinger, detract from the focal point of the debate, and ultimately serve to benefit nobody.

Also, Harm and LockeZ made a very important point earlier: Everyone has been at the receiving end of discrimination at some point in their lives.

To give a little bit of my side of the story regarding this, I'm a middle-class male Japanese-American born and living in the USA and I've felt discrimination towards my social status, race, gender, and nationality numerous times, some as the butt of jokes which I laugh together with, some as misconceptual stereotypes (Asians are supposedly awesome at playing games! It's also always hilarious when people in Japan think I'm white, blonde, and blue-eyed because I'm American.) and some as actual attacks which I felt genuinely offended by.

So again, let's not assume that someone doesn't understand what it feels like to be discriminated, we all know what it feels like to be discriminated and it would be to everyone's mutual benefit to realize this before we move on with this discussion. ( ̄▽ ̄)ノ

Females and Gaming - #1reasonwhy

author=iddalai
Did I ever said that? I didn't. What I said is that men can never write as well about women, and vice-versa.

Plus, notice the sentence you used: "men just suck at writing about girls". As an example you could also have used "women just suck at writing about boys" or "people just suck at writing about the opposite gender", but you didn't, because this issue is deep within our roots and you even used "girls" instead of women. This could mean you think women are all girls, I say you were only outraged because it was implied that "men" sucked at writing about them. I wonder if you would be so outraged if I had said it the other way around.

Wait, I did, if you read my post I say: "vice-versa".
I admit "girls" was a bad choice of words, my apologies. Allow me to rephrase: "Men just suck at writing about women." I'm not sure why I used "girls" there in hindsight really, I've been using "women" everywhere else so it must have been a slip of the typing fingers.

Now that aside, what are you trying to argue here? That I'm refusing saying to say "women just suck at writing about men"? Regardless, I'm not showing favoritism to one gender or the other and you're not going to get anything out of me from trying to pull a "gotcha!" on that angle.

author=iddalai
The audience and the creators are correlated. The audience will buy what's for sale and the creators will create what sells.

Also, independently of being able to differentiate real-world from fiction, every human being if influentiated by several factors while growing up and living in society, these factors change people, like I mentioned: education, school, films, books, etc.

We are all changed by our surroundings, if you have bad surroundings then it will change you for worse. What I mentioned earlier is an example of that, you don't even notice it.
My argument is that simply calling games sexist and then subsequently removing them doesn't solve the actual problem of people being sexist. The creators and industry behind them aren't entirely out of fault, true, but simply piling all the blame on them won't fix anything either.

Really, the only true answer as far as I can see is to educate people and make it clear when something is fine to be played for laughs and when it's definitely not.

author=iddalai
I agree that poor writing is also an issue when creating characters of any gender. But I never said "that someone of one gender can't write well about the other gender", what I said was "that someone of one gender can't write AS well about the other gender" slight difference, but it's there.
I admit I missed the "as" there, sorry 'bout that. However, my original point still stands because I feel you place too much emphasis on the gender of the writer rather than their actual skill. Good writing takes genuine skill and effort, us game devs should know this better than anyone short of other writers, and ultimately gender will play a minimal factor in how the writing comes out. Yes, I agree with you that men can't completely understand women and vice-versa, but good writing is indeed possible and credit is due where credit is due.

author=iddalai
There's a flaw there, you forgot step 5

- Finding someone to give you work and money.

That someone may only choose to hire you based on your gender and not on actual merit. I've seen it happen in my workplace. Women may learn how to program by themselves, but that doesn't mean someone will hire them.
Alright, did I just misinterpret the original query or something? Because everyone, including you, who has responded to my little comment on this has been going off on tangents about professional women in the workplace.

The original argument was, and I quote, "Many times women aren't even given a chance to try out programming, so they won't even know it they like it." I put forth the counterargument that programming itself is very easy to pick up and get started on. Notepad, reference material, some creativity, and boom you're programming! What's so hard to understand about this? Is there really a practical reason that women can't open Notepad, grab some reference material, get creative, and go off writing code?

It should also be made clear that being a programmer does not require you to be making money off of what you're programming. I've never took on any commercial jobs to date with regards to programming and I still consider myself a programmer (an amateur programmer, mind you). If you were talking about professional programmers specifically then you will have a point, but you were talking about programmers in general and I'm going to call out the fallacy you put forth on that one.

Also,
After dealing with male programmers (be it in school or anywhere else) that behave improperly with them they may never want to even try programming.
This has nothing to do with women not being given "a chance to try out programming".

I won't reply to the rest of your post because you mis-quoted me while you were writing it. I'll let Harm and LockeZ, who wrote the two quoted posts respectively, get back to you on those.

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author=Acra
Note who he quotes it as from. Really, he's not calling me a liar? He's calling me far worse than that, actually.
Apparently I misread who was being quoted. My apologies! That aside however, I still stand by my original statement that nobody's called you a liar, nor "far worse" as you put it. We might have differing opinions from you but we have most definitely not been offensive or insulting to you in this discussion (as far as I can tell) and I believe it is within our right to expect you to treat us in kind.

EDIT: Noticed the rest of your post was also directed to me. I was short on time so I guess I'd missed it (plus there was that quote from Harm). I'll address it below:


Enjoy being attacked?
author=harmonic
people love being offended, so they seek it out. It gives you righteous indignation, which feels good. It also gives you sympathy and support system. There's like no downside to it.
Alright, that one I can't find a justifiable reason for. Granted I'm sure Harm doesn't mean any ill will towards women judging from his subsequent posts, I understand how that statement might have been a bit out of line there. I'll let Harm take the details though as he was the writer and not me.

The other two are a bit more broad. I've taken a fair bit of offense to your own 'programming is sooo easy to learn' quips for starters, and Sailerius and harmonic have said some extremely broad and hurtful things.
First off, I said that programming was easy to get started in, I never said nor intended to say that learning to program was easy. How hard learning to program is will ultimately depend on the person; I personally find programming ultimately a question of logic, but some may find that hard or even entirely different and they aren't at any fault for finding it so and I never pressed assumptions on the matter. I merely stated that the act of programming was as simple as opening Notepad and writing code and that there was nothing I could see that would bar women from that act short of their own unwillingness.

Also, it would help to specifiy what it was that you found offensive from our posts. We can address why we said what we said, apologize if apologies are called for, and debate this current topic like mature, sensible adults instead of flinging mud.

I'm personally for gender equality in the most literal of terms, as my previous posts would imply, and I'd like to continue discussing this topic in a mature, sensible, constructive manner if it is possible to do so.

Females and Gaming - #1reasonwhy

author=Acra
So I’ve been told ‘boo hoo suck it up’, been called a liar, worthless, stupid, and that I enjoy being attacked because it makes me ‘feel good’. If iddalai’s getting ripped apart like this, there’s nothing worthwhile I can say to help.

Good job for forcing a female developer out of the community in a topic about tolerance.
As far as what I've seen of the posts subsequent to yours, nobody's called you a "liar" (that one post was just an expression of "wow... this shit actually happens?" rather than calling you a liar, there was no ill will), "worthless", "stupid", or that you "enjoy being attacked".

If anything, we sympathize with your plight and the staff here have asked you to report any and all such grievous acts so that they can help you both as one mature person to another as well as answering to their obligations to properly police this community.

But just so you know, if you're going to treat others like crap then you will get treated like crap in return. You antagonized us without cause with your post and you aren't helping neither yourself nor other women with that hostile attitude.

Gender Equality isn't something where men cater to women or vice versa, equality is where both men and women are treated completely equally without bias; aka if you treat me like crap then I'll treat you like crap, but if you treat me respectfully then I'll treat you respectfully as well, and I will expect the same from you and everyone else.

author=emmych
I dunno, growing up in a society that is constantly telling you that you're a hysterical, emotional, irrational other with a brain unfit for rational, mathematic thought is kind of a difficult barrier to overcome.
I understand your point and do wish mental pressuring like that wouldn't exist. While there is some scientific evidence that suggests slight-but-inherent differences between male and female brains, that is still absolutely no reason to force people one way or the other; we're born with free will and we should be able to use that to its fullest.

That said though, the fact remains that women are able to try programming just as easily as men do at least physically. Everyone can open Notepad, look up some programming languages on Google, and then start programming; I know I did just that when I first wanted to create web pages of my own! This was the crux of the original argument, at least with how I interpreted it, and I simply wanted to point out the fallacy of that argument.

author=slashphoenix
As far as anecdotal evidence goes, a friend of mine is often accused of being the "favorite bitch" of my old professor by her male classmates because her team projects often get good scores. That class is about 1:15 female/male as well, but that's not atypical.
I'd personally like to see those classmates get kicked out or otherwise get a stern lecturing. Jealousy is one thing but harrassment is another entirely.

Females and Gaming - #1reasonwhy

author=slashphoenix
The problem isn't that women are not capable of programming; they are. The problem is that despite their ability, they are not accepted, treated fairly, or presented the same opportunities. They are often not treated as equals, even if they earn that through personal skill and merit. Thusly, they don't have the same chance that men do.

The original argument was that women "aren't even given a chance to try out programming". "Trying out" programming is as simple as what I stated above, so that's what I wanted to point out; there's nothing barring women from trying programming as far as I can tell.

As for the specifics of female programmers on the field, I won't comment there as I lack suffient data to create a constructive comment on it.

Females and Gaming - #1reasonwhy

author=iddalai
This is a preconception, this is part of the issue at hand. Many times women aren't even given a chance to try out programming, so they won't even know it they like it.

How to Program 101:
1. Open Notepad (or plain text editor of your choice).
2. Obtain reference material (lots of free stuff on the internet).
3. ????
4. PROFIT!

If there's something barring women from doing the above (I know I did the above, much of my programming knowledge has been self-taught), please do enlighten me.

author=iddalai
The reason a lot of these female characters were like this is beacuse they were created by men, with a male demographic in mind.

I think the problem is more with subpar writing than men writing about female characters. While there's a case to be made that men won't completely understand women and vice versa, literature in general has proven it's very possible for one gender to write about the other in a meaningful way. To just dismiss everything as "men just suck at writing about girls" is nothing short of retarded.

author=iddalai
Women are still paid less for their work, is that workplace equality?

Nice emotional appeal, but what are the specific factors behind it? What jobs are the women working? Are the jobs (including work hours) the same as those of men? How are their performance with regards to their jobs on average? How does the landscape look on the men's side?

I won't argue that discrimination against women in the workplace doesn't exist, I know they do exist, but simply crying out that women are being treated unfairly isn't going to make your case suddenly a legitimate point of argument and debate.

author=iddalai
There is a relation between sexism and games. Sex sells, everyone knows that. They undress videogame characters as much as they can (specially the female characters) to appeal to the sexual nature of the audience.
However, by doing this, they contribute to sexism by making the characters look "cheap" or "slutty", they make these characters dress in a way that you wouldn't feel confortable having your sister or mother dress like. They remove respect form these characters, and in turn the audience does the same thing with real people.

This is a problem with the audience rather than the creators. When (some of) the audience loses the ability to differentiate real-world from fiction, we should be fixing that problem rather than suddenly saying that sexism is destroying the world.

For the record, I'm not saying everyone can't differentiate real-world from fiction. Those of us that lead healthy lives enjoy our entertainment while interacting with the real world in a mature and sensible way. However, there certainly are people that probably shouldn't partake in fiction for the sake of everyone else.

author=iddalai
Yes, men and women are both human, both have a brain, both think. But they are not the same, they don't like the same things, they don't think the same things, their bodies are different, men and women are different and have different experiences. A man can't write as well about women as he can about men and vice-versa.
Creating a character and giving it a vagina doesn't make a female character.

Indeed! There's far more to a person (read: a character) than simply giving it a gender and calling it a day. As I stated above though, poor writing has to do with poor writing skill itself rather than what gender the writer is.

Honestly, stating that someone of one gender can't write well about the other gender simply because of their gender is flat out discrimination itself and an insult to writers everywhere.

author=iddalai
That's hardly a solution. No one should have to hide their gender or what they are to be able to play a game online, or simply playing a game, since this happens even outside of the onlime gaming communities. That's running away from the issue.

Completely agreed.

Females and Gaming - #1reasonwhy

All I will say is that trying to directly increase female count is about as bad as barring women from the industry.

Let everyone of every background and both genders have equal opportunity, if there are places for women in the industry then the bricks will fall into place naturally.

Note: I'm not trying to be discriminatory or anything, so please don't take this post like that. (。= ω =。)

Intel discontinuing socketted CPUs

http://www.zdnet.com/intel-preparing-to-put-an-end-to-user-replaceable-cpus-7000008024/
http://semiaccurate.com/2012/11/26/intel-kills-off-the-desktop-pcs-go-with-it/

Intel is moving over to "Ball Grid Array" CPUs with their upcoming Broadwell architecture CPUs coming out some time next year.

What this basically means is that Intel's new CPUs will now all come soldered onto their motherboards, there will be absolutely no way to change out CPUs like we can right now. For those of us that build our own computers and/or tinker with them, we can pretty much kiss the prospect (at least with regards to the CPU) goodbye. And no, socketted Intel CPUs won't be making any long-term comeback if those articles are any indication.

Yes, I know, the Intel Atom and their other mobile-type CPUs are also all soldered directly onto their motherboards, but this change actually holds legitimate implications for PC enthusiasts since the change is for "desktop" form-factors rather than the mobile market which was always restrictive due to space-constraints.

I sincerely hope AMD doesn't follow suit in this. Software is already getting more controlled and restricted by the likes of Apple and now Microsoft with Windows 8, and now the hardware unsurprisingly seems to be going in that direction as well.

Really, all I have to say is this: F*ck you, Intel.

How do I change forum titles

Not to spam, but am I the only who didn't get what "Forum Title" was and where "Bottom left, under text entry box." described? (*´Д`)