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MY GIRLFRIEND IS HAVING AN EMOTIONAL AFFAIR
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Syzasu
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CloseIf she still cares for you then you can confront her with some hard evidence. Reading a txt msg isn't really hard evidence considering she could deny it or in fact pull it back on you for not trusting her and going through her private things. =( This is a bad situation indeed. You seem to know for sure that she is having an emotional affair with this guitar playing yoga mastering chap. She should still be able to see through the whole guitar/yoga/massage thing, if not then she's just blind.
Good luck brandonabley keep us updated! I really hope this turns out okay =(
Good luck brandonabley keep us updated! I really hope this turns out okay =(
I feel bad you're in this situation. It happened to me once, and getting jealous and snoopy didn't really help me out in the end. She used my behavior as a freudian excuse to dump me and go out with the other guy. This was probably a forgone conclusion at the time, but still. I still hate the smug bastard, but then again he's a borderline pedophile.
Anyway, did she start hiding things about this guy AFTER you confronted her about it? She may still feel this friendship is innocent, and doesn't want to cause trouble by bringing it up again, which may be why she doesn't tell you about it anymore. Other than that, i'll give no advice.
Also, girls just don't seem to understand how much guys hate it when other guys are mackin' on their chicks!
Anyway, did she start hiding things about this guy AFTER you confronted her about it? She may still feel this friendship is innocent, and doesn't want to cause trouble by bringing it up again, which may be why she doesn't tell you about it anymore. Other than that, i'll give no advice.
Also, girls just don't seem to understand how much guys hate it when other guys are mackin' on their chicks!
Syzasu
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omg! I am SO stealing that pic =D.
Not true, unless she feels somethings amiss....in the relationship.
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Also, girls just don't seem to understand how much guys hate it when other guys are mackin' on their chicks!
Not true, unless she feels somethings amiss....in the relationship.
Kaempfer
1932
I skipped page two. Did anyone suggest you go and talk to the guy and tell him to fuck off very politely?
Alternatively you could SMASH HIS GUITAR HA HA HA! He does Yoga and is therefore a weakling; just watch out for his Yoga Fire.
SERIOUSLY though talk to the guy and tell him that you don't appreciate him obviously trying to get into your ladies pants; homewreckers don't like to be the center of attention. They prefer the attention to be centered on the relationship itself, which begins to fall apart as a result of all that attention. Then, they move in for the kill. If they are put in the spotlight, they usually wither away somewhat.
Also, man, you can't stop trusting someone because they get along with someone else. You can stop trusting her if she started BEING IN LOVE with the guy, but woman are genuinely capable of being friends with dudes, which is not true in the reverse so it is hard for us to understand. She is being sneaky but girls are sneaky by definition and most can't help but get sneakier when they feel they are being scrutinized, and you are scrutinizing the shit out of her. Work it out.
Alternatively you could SMASH HIS GUITAR HA HA HA! He does Yoga and is therefore a weakling; just watch out for his Yoga Fire.
SERIOUSLY though talk to the guy and tell him that you don't appreciate him obviously trying to get into your ladies pants; homewreckers don't like to be the center of attention. They prefer the attention to be centered on the relationship itself, which begins to fall apart as a result of all that attention. Then, they move in for the kill. If they are put in the spotlight, they usually wither away somewhat.
Also, man, you can't stop trusting someone because they get along with someone else. You can stop trusting her if she started BEING IN LOVE with the guy, but woman are genuinely capable of being friends with dudes, which is not true in the reverse so it is hard for us to understand. She is being sneaky but girls are sneaky by definition and most can't help but get sneakier when they feel they are being scrutinized, and you are scrutinizing the shit out of her. Work it out.
Bandito
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Stick it in her pooper.
Seriously dawg I think you should ignore it and rent a detective just to see if she's been unfaithful.
Seriously dawg I think you should ignore it and rent a detective just to see if she's been unfaithful.
Canuck
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I skipped page two. Did anyone suggest you go and talk to the guy and tell him to fuck off very politely?
Alternatively you could SMASH HIS GUITAR HA HA HA! He does Yoga and is therefore a weakling; just watch out for his Yoga Fire.
SERIOUSLY though talk to the guy and tell him that you don't appreciate him obviously trying to get into your ladies pants; homewreckers don't like to be the center of attention. They prefer the attention to be centered on the relationship itself, which begins to fall apart as a result of all that attention. Then, they move in for the kill. If they are put in the spotlight, they usually wither away somewhat.
Also, man, you can't stop trusting someone because they get along with someone else. You can stop trusting her if she started BEING IN LOVE with the guy, but woman are genuinely capable of being friends with dudes, which is not true in the reverse so it is hard for us to understand. She is being sneaky but girls are sneaky by definition and most can't help but get sneakier when they feel they are being scrutinized, and you are scrutinizing the shit out of her. Work it out.
I second this post. Besides the part about boys not being able to be friends with girls, the rest is gold.
Nightblade
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Also, man, you can't stop trusting someone because they get along with someone else. You can stop trusting her if she started BEING IN LOVE with the guy, but woman are genuinely capable of being friends with dudes, which is not true in the reverse so it is hard for us to understand. She is being sneaky but girls are sneaky by definition and most can't help but get sneakier when they feel they are being scrutinized, and you are scrutinizing the shit out of her. Work it out.
I believe he's worried after reading certain e-mails; not simply because the two are friends. Whatever was in those emails / messages is cause enough for this thread's creation. Other then that, this is some good advice... Not that I'd know anything about this.
beat the balls off of him. metaphorically, of course but you should either kick his ass, or give your girl an orgasm so violent that she'll never have thoughts of another man ever again.
captainregal
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Honestly I have sort of been through this myself. Although my situation was a little different from yours. I tried my best to make this work. But It was doomed from the start of something like this. To me If this was me. This would be a simple "Although not easy" decision. If you are not living with her, dump her right now! It is easier to end it yourself on your moral grounds. And not to have HER leave you for another. If you do live with her find the best and easygoing way to moving out and then try to have as much or as little as possible contact.
That is what I would do if this ever happens to me again. It sounds like her trust of you is not the greatest either.
Do what ever is best for you. She has obviously stopped caring about how this makes you feel so its up to you.
If this advice does or does not help you I needed to put in my two cents because I have gone through something very similar.
That is what I would do if this ever happens to me again. It sounds like her trust of you is not the greatest either.
Do what ever is best for you. She has obviously stopped caring about how this makes you feel so its up to you.
If this advice does or does not help you I needed to put in my two cents because I have gone through something very similar.
S. F. LaValle
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Take trust out of the equation. Just be honest.
Tell her that you're uncomfortable with the type of relationship she has with this person. If she accuses you of not trusting her, tell her that trusting her isn't the issue, it's trusting Yo-guitar man, because he may not think it's innocuous at all, or doesn't want it to be.
If she still argues that you're being paranoid, then give her the choice of what's more important: her trust in Yo-guitar man or your feelings.
What follows is pretty much your answer. She's been made aware that whether you trust her or not, you're not comfortable with what's going on. Main thing is, you're right; this situation doesn't get resolved until he's out of the picture, or you are.
Tell her that you're uncomfortable with the type of relationship she has with this person. If she accuses you of not trusting her, tell her that trusting her isn't the issue, it's trusting Yo-guitar man, because he may not think it's innocuous at all, or doesn't want it to be.
If she still argues that you're being paranoid, then give her the choice of what's more important: her trust in Yo-guitar man or your feelings.
What follows is pretty much your answer. She's been made aware that whether you trust her or not, you're not comfortable with what's going on. Main thing is, you're right; this situation doesn't get resolved until he's out of the picture, or you are.
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Take trust out of the equation. Just be honest.
Tell her that you're uncomfortable with the type of relationship she has with this person. If she accuses you of not trusting her, tell her that trusting her isn't the issue, it's trusting Yo-guitar man, because he may not think it's innocuous at all, or doesn't want it to be.
If she still argues that you're being paranoid, then give her the choice of what's more important: her trust in Yo-guitar man or your feelings.
What follows is pretty much your answer. She's been made aware that whether you trust her or not, you're not comfortable with what's going on. Main thing is, you're right; this situation doesn't get resolved until he's out of the picture, or you are.
Kaempfer
1932
Most people don't like being given ultimatums, and most people don't like being proven wrong (especially with logic!). Confronting her (which he already has) is not going to go well. Admittedly, whatever was in the texts is probably trust-breaking, but if that's the case then it is over, so... topic... done?
The only way to fix this is to get the guy to leave the situation, because it has almost certainly escalated to a point where the girl won't, for a number of reasons.
Also, Canuck, single guys can't be friends with attractive women. I mean, it's possible, but it's very rare. Most decent guys who are in good relationships can easily be friends with women, but for single guys it is a different equation.
The only way to fix this is to get the guy to leave the situation, because it has almost certainly escalated to a point where the girl won't, for a number of reasons.
Also, Canuck, single guys can't be friends with attractive women. I mean, it's possible, but it's very rare. Most decent guys who are in good relationships can easily be friends with women, but for single guys it is a different equation.
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Also, Canuck, single guys can't be friends with attractive women. I mean, it's possible, but it's very rare. Most decent guys who are in good relationships can easily be friends with women, but for single guys it is a different equation.
I'm not even going to get into how fundamentally wrong this statement is, but trust, me, it's wrong.
