HOW TO APPROACH A GIRL......THE CORRECT WAY. (SERIOUS TOPIC)

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You see Uh, the problem that I have with you is that you're taking this thing too seriously.

I can tell you're overthinking this by the way you try to talk.

You remind me of somebody I know, he does the same thing.

Uh, no disrespect but I don't think you've been in many relationships.

AFD, my problem with you is that you're making a very transparent effort to discredit my opinions. That's fine enough on its own, if not a little sketchy, but you're coming way out of left field to do it and obviously have no idea what you're talking about. If you don't want me in your thread just say so; you don't have to make some hilariously wrong speculations to get what you want here.

Now I AM starting to derail this thread, so if you want to continue this exchange feel free to shit up my mailbox with this garbage so that others here won't have to suffer your ignorance any more than necessary.

I would post a face palm image but I don't want to get in trouble.

I'm young, fly and flashy! With so much to give!

aww sugar!

Lets get it on!

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I don't think the world is so cut and dry, and if anyone were to fall for something that you copied from a self-help book or a topic on RMN, that person probably isn't very deep.

but I like boys so what the hell do I know

This man is correct in my highly inflexible and disclaimer-worthy opinion. Anytime someone solicits advice on how to "approach" a girl like she's a tricky block-pushing puzzle, offering no specific insight into the girl herself, just makes me think the one who asks is so inexperienced that they view romance as a dating sim. Their failure is almost guaranteed.

Although I suppose it would work on women who are stupid and/or have had an astonishing lack of healthy relationships/male figures. Cue "how to approach a stripper you're attracted to" thread*.

To me the "right" mindset to have when meeting individuals of whatever gender you are attracted to is the same one we use when making/choosing our friends, namely that there are two kinds of people in the world: ones who will accept and appreciate you for who you are, and ones who can fuck off.

PS if all you're out to do is get laid then several of my friends have a depressingly high level of success with the method Feld describes above

*go to her first, pay for a dance, don't be a regular, compliment her tats, ask her what her life goals are (have a drink in your hand so you can pretend to take a sip whenever you feel the urge to laugh during her reply to this one)

Well Uh i'm not trying to bite you, i'm trying to debate with you. You gave an opinion that looks like you thought about it quite a bit so you obviously want to debate the subject.

The reason why i'm not giving insight on different girl types because I don't have the time so I just
typed the BASIC BLUE PRINT......understand? Let me say it one more time.....THE BASIC BLUE PRINT.

If you find that the list of facts as tricky as a "Block pushing puzzle" you obviously aren't getting the topic.

This topic is mean't to be a something that helps people out, not for somebody to completely follow line by line..

Who does that?

And this may sound shallow but in most cases when you approach a very attractive chick you have
to do a little bit more than just being "Yourself."

You have to put confidence in yourself and you've got to sometimes be "cool".

I've had success with it and many people I know have as well.

And also you said that I should stop my "ignorance."

You can call it whatever you want but it helps guys get "Decent" girls.

You are saying stuff that will only allow you to get lower class girls.
What do most guys want? DECENT GIRLS.

Lower class girls are easier to get and yes you can just "be yourself" to get them most of the time.

But i'm tired of seeing jocks get all the high class girls when I know for a fact we all can.

How does it make me look dumb? You can see me through the computer?

I'm sorry it doesn't make sense to you....

Wow dude.....just wow.....